A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Dec 24, 2019 1:30:43 am PST #14962 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Damn, Atropa! I always suspected laundry was dangerous. I hope recovery is swift and easy


Jesse - Dec 24, 2019 2:53:15 am PST #14963 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh no, Atropa! I hope you are back upright shortly.

I think figuring out how to do what you need for holidays without trying to force other people into it is really important. Because obviously, forcing adults into anything is not that easy or fun....

I'm braiding the last of the turkey legs I got for Thanksgiving and didn't need, so that meant opening a bottle of red wine and boy is it tasty.

I realize this is the least of our problems, but -t, were you actually braising???

I am looking forward to my family coming for Christmas today, but I realize I didn't follow the rules for the gift exchange and I think I have to go to the store for another appetizer. Oops.


Steph L. - Dec 24, 2019 3:24:01 am PST #14964 of 30019
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I'm braiding the last of the turkey legs I got for Thanksgiving and didn't need, so that meant opening a bottle of red wine and boy is it tasty.

I realize this is the least of our problems, but -t, were you actually braising???

I'm desperately hoping she really braided it!


Sophia Brooks - Dec 24, 2019 3:46:56 am PST #14965 of 30019
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

In all my stress because my mom changed our Christmas menu from chili to ham! I forgot the original side I was bringing- salad!

I want braided turkey legs!


Sophia Brooks - Dec 24, 2019 4:05:00 am PST #14966 of 30019
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Also, my mom is really annoying me with this ham thing. No one likes ham, I don't know why she is doing it, except I can't eat beans. But I can eat around the beans! Sheila said she would bring a sandwich tray, and that made my mom think she didn't want chili! My mom "told" me we were switching by asking me if I could eat ham, but I thought she was just asking. My uncle has only been talking to me, so we have sides and bread for chili. But now I need to make new sides. I bet Sheila will still have the sandwich tray. We are four people, how is communication such a disaster?.

I am pretty sure my mom is just trying to be nice, that is the issue, so I am also a little angry at myself for being annoyed. But if she just let it go and let me do everything we would not have all this agita! And we would be having better food that everyone like, with actual sides that go with that type of food. My mom somehow never learned to plan a coordinating meal, because my grandma cooked when I was little, and then I cooked for most family holidays until I was thirty and my mom all of the sudden decided she should, when I am happy to. And we added Sheila, who also cooks. But I started planning and making holiday meals in 7th grade, I am capable of it!


Sophia Brooks - Dec 24, 2019 4:05:01 am PST #14967 of 30019
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Also, my mom is really annoying me with this ham thing. No one likes ham, I don't know why she is doing it, except I can't eat beans. But I can eat around the beans! Sheila said she would bring a sandwich tray, and that made my mom think she didn't want chili! My mom "told" me we were switching by asking me if I could eat ham, but I thought she was just asking. My uncle has only been talking to me, so we have sides and bread for chili. But now I need to make new sides. I bet Sheila will still have the sandwich tray. We are four people, how is communication such a disaster?.

I am pretty sure my mom is just trying to be nice, that is the issue, so I am also a little angry at myself for being annoyed. But if she just let it go and let me do everything we would not have all this agita! And we would be having better food that everyone like, with actual sides that go with that type of food. My mom somehow never learned to plan a coordinating meal, because my grandma cooked when I was little, and then I cooked for most family holidays until I was thirty and my mom all of the sudden decided she should, when I am happy to. And we added Sheila, who also cooks. But I started planning and making holiday meals in 7th grade, I am capable of it!


Sophia Brooks - Dec 24, 2019 4:38:31 am PST #14968 of 30019
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

So I am now going to make mashed rutabaga, mashed cauliflower and sweet potatoes to go with ham. I already made greens (with bacon). I can't get a straight answer out of my mom if there will be other sides (like maybe she is hiding them from me because I can't eat them!)


Theodosia - Dec 24, 2019 5:17:15 am PST #14969 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Renewed license achieved!

On the downside, plumber charged $475 for visit, fetching small fancy brass part, and now says that the hot water tank has to be replaced for like $6K+.

Hoping panicky roommate who is onsite is not being misled. At the least, a second opinion (and quote) is advisable.


Tom Scola - Dec 24, 2019 5:24:27 am PST #14970 of 30019
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

Theo, I was going to suggest you look at getting a heat pump, but it would be more expensive (at least in the short term), and it looks like most of the rebate programs have expired.


Laura - Dec 24, 2019 6:02:40 am PST #14971 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.

Oh no, Atropa! I am so sorry to hear you are in that level of pain. Backs were indeed poorly designed.

My SIL decided once again that I was to provide a meat lasagna as well as a vegan dish. So I am buying a frozen lasagna, but will still make a super tasty pasta/capers/broccoli/beans dish I like.

I am off to the grocery store. Take pity on me.