From across the Cubicle Wall: "You know when you pull out one single nose hair, and it hurts so much? The whole side of my face is on fire! It's like when you pull out an eyebrow hair! It's just AGGGHH!"

Strange to hear a dudebro complaining about plucking his eyebrows.

Hang in there, Steph. Things will probably get better for a while after he settles into his new space and his medical situation gets managed; but of course in the long term, there isn't a lot of hope. Dementia sucks.

My brother forwarded a study about how people who drink lots of tea have lower incidence of dementia, so I feel vindicated about my tea problem.

In the rundown of the substantiated sex abuse cases, I personally knew 5 of the perpetrators.

Oh, flea, that's all so horrible and sad.

Steph, I hope Tim's dad settles into his new place and is soon able to be content. My mom strongly resisted going into assisted living, but it wasn't long before she was happy there. She played piano for everyone, and made friends, and complained about the (excellent) food, and the staff loved her. It was so so much better for her and all of us than trying to keep her at home.

My brother forwarded a study about how people who drink lots of tea have lower incidence of dementia, so I feel vindicated about my tea problem.

My sister and I are always talking about how we can avoid this fate. Probably the best thing we could do is exercise more, which is of course the thing we're both least inclined to do.

From across the Cubicle Wall: "You know when you pull out one single nose hair, and it hurts so much? The whole side of my face is on fire! It's like when you pull out an eyebrow hair! It's just AGGGHH!"

It hurts a guy that much to pull out an eyebrow hair? Guys, I need someone to test this. Just yank out one eyebrow hair and report back.

My grandparents recently moved out of their three-story colonial into assisted living, and Nana is not adjusting well. Even though she has access to many more activities now (their apartment is down the hall from the pool, there is a knitting group, a book club, etc) because she doesn't need my grandfather to drive her, she feels like she's lost her freedom. We're pretty sure part of her crankiness is due to the early stages of dementia, though, so they really moved just in time.

(PS if anyone wants to buy an antiquarian book business with a gorgeous house attached, they're still looking for buyers!)

their apartment is down the hall from the pool

Jack's new studio has a huge window that looks straight out onto the outdoor pool. We feel like once it opens, he'll be pretty happy about all the ladies out there.

It's really like he's moved into a college dorm, without the pesky going-to-class part. The dining room is around the corner, the activity room is across from his studio, and if you wander down the hall a bit, the facility has an area that's like a student union, with a bank, a beauty shop/barber, a small grocery, a fitness center, a billiards room, a library, and a bistro. The grounds has a greenhouse for gardening, walking trails, golf, lawn bowling, shuffleboard, and the aforementioned outdoor pool, which is heated.

All of us have said we'd love to move there.

Damn, this tribute to Carrie Fisher. Ouch.

That was really nice.

And so in his mind, he reverts to the memory of himself as healthy and active and not needing medical care or even medication.

I really hope his naturally social behavior results in him taking part in activities and meeting people. It is so hard.

I'm really glad the school has gone this public about all this, but I'm also really sad.

Ugh. It is sad. One of the most favorite priests from our Catholic High School was involved in abuse, which was a complete shock to everyone I knew. This isn't what youthful memories should include.

When I was in high school, my village was so Catholic that the stores closed from noon- 3 on Good Friday so we could go to church.

Completely shut down in Utica, which at the time was predominately Catholic. There is some of that here with the Cuban community. With my customer base I have a % that are closed for Passover, and a % that are closed early today for Good Friday. It's been quiet so I have just been alternating work and play.

I am getting double pay today, so it's fine, really.

That makes it worthwhile!

I'm honestly not sure there's anything more brutal for family members than dementia.

Brutal is the word. Both the gradual and inevitable dementia and the psychic breaks that often accompany serious illness. I've been very focused on brain health the past few years. Trying to learn new things, exercise, and brain healthy diet. It is a worry that I would ever be mean to my DH and kids. I am so much older than DH and although he is the most loving and caring person, it just plain hurts when the loved one you are caring for strikes out at you.

So what are the weekend plans? DH has gone to Orlando for a basketball tournament. The kids are working tomorrow so we plan on going to the Keys on Sunday and being beach bums and eating wherever as most places will be open. We are torn between wanting the boys to win the tournament and him missing the trip, or wanting them to lose and he joins us. (We still enthusiastically wished them luck.)

It hurts a guy that much to pull out an eyebrow hair? Guys, I need someone to test this. Just yank out one eyebrow hair and report back.

I tried, but couldn't. Can't find my tweezers.

I will try again later. For Science!

(PS if anyone wants to buy an antiquarian book business with a gorgeous house attached, they're still looking for buyers!)

If I won a mega-lottery, I would invest in struggling used and antiquarian book stores, keeping them open and creating a network where they could share information about who has what, providing the tech savvy people to do the computer work so the booky people could focus on the books.

I've been having a lot of anxiety lately. Finally figured out it's because I haven't done much on the job-search front lately. So today I joined LinkedIn.

The latest from my boss is he may cut both our salaries so the company won't be losing so much money. At least that gives me more time for job searching while still employed.

Can someone do me a favor and take a look at my resume? (Especially if you work in the tech/software development industries?) Mostly I want to avoid mistakes before I post it to LinkedIn, etc.

Tommy that sounds tough. Good luck. (I am not a resume expert)

I hate that even if I only have a couple glasses of wine I have a headache in the morning. But thank goodness I have today off work. Yay!

I have nothing to add re: dementia, but I will be all for moving into a party senior living place when I'm of an appropriate age. Bingo and crafts here I come!