I'm sorry. You were going to ask me to choose, right? Did you want to finish?

Zoe ,'War Stories'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


brenda m - Feb 03, 2017 7:05:03 am PST #6696 of 30002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Changing your name for reasons other than being a (het?) woman getting married is actually pretty onerous and costly. Or so I understand from friends who've been through it.


flea - Feb 03, 2017 7:12:55 am PST #6697 of 30002
information libertarian

Interestingly, the passport agency does not need documentation of a legal name change if the change involves a standard nickname or a minor change. So if your birth certificate says you were born Susan Smith, and your current license shows you as Suzi Smythe, you can get a passport as Suzi Smythe without documenting a legal name change. Also, married women who changed their names at marriage and are now getting a first passport do not need to prove they legally changed their names. If you were born Susan Smith and have a license showing Susan Jones, and list Jim Jones as your husband on the application, they are fine with that.


flea - Feb 03, 2017 7:14:12 am PST #6698 of 30002
information libertarian

OTOH if you are inconsistent about what your name is, that is more likely to be an issue with passports. If sometimes you are Susan Jones, and sometimes Susan Smythe-Jones, and sometimes Suzi Smythe, that is more problematic. Pick a name, is their philosophy.


Dana - Feb 03, 2017 7:15:45 am PST #6699 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

My reward for today is going to be a hair appointment. I may be getting something dyed blue. Or purple, maybe. Probably not all of my hair, but something. I'm not going into an office at the moment, so it seems like a good time.


meara - Feb 03, 2017 7:19:24 am PST #6700 of 30002

Ooh fun!! I have been loving my secret blue chunk (it's under other hair but peeks out here and there). Much as the all-blue hair was fun, I kinda figure this is more "me" anyway.

I have a couple friends who do not have passports due to name issues (one has rather different names on her birth certificate from her social security card to her other documents--I think having to do with both her mom's indecisiveness, poor spelling, and multiple re marriages (her mom, not her)


SuziQ - Feb 03, 2017 7:19:30 am PST #6701 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Work is frustrating today.

OMG, I had no idea how frustrating when I wrote that. For the last 2.5 days I've been chasing a $200k variance. I have engaged a bunch of people to try to figure out why, how, who, etc. Today I sent a note to the person who started this mess saying I have exhausted my research abilities with no results and could he provide more information.

His response? Oh, the numbers match now. Must have been a mapping issue since our company just went through a HUGE reorganization and a ton of our internal coding has changed. So "Nevermind".

I want to RAGE QUIT for the day. I can't even express how....UGHHHHH...I am over this.


zuisa - Feb 03, 2017 7:25:44 am PST #6702 of 30002
call me jacki; zuisa is an internet nick from ancient times =)

Definitely dye something blue!


shrift - Feb 03, 2017 7:26:41 am PST #6703 of 30002
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

The Superb Owl is this weekend, right? I've already forgotten what teams are playing.

I'm about to start day two of a class taught by this guy: [link]

ETA: Ooh, purple or blue!


SuziQ - Feb 03, 2017 7:29:26 am PST #6704 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I LOVE my purple highlights. Bangs and then a few panels on the sides and back. I refresh the color myself every couple of weeks but my stylist takes care of the bleaching and then initial dying.


Consuela - Feb 03, 2017 7:29:47 am PST #6705 of 30002
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

They have "bulky item pick-up": [link].

Yeah, but we get one bulk pickup per year, and I don't want to waste on someone else's garbage. I'll try the city and the garbage company...