I'm just trying to tell you that we have nothing in common besides both of us liking your penis.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sumi - Jan 31, 2017 5:50:08 pm PST #6539 of 30002
Art Crawl!!!

Hi Sophia,

I am enjoying retirement tremendously. Although, lots of things are still up in the air and I still haven't found a part-time job to supplement my pension.


meara - Jan 31, 2017 5:50:30 pm PST #6540 of 30002

I'm watching Top Model which is totally an antidote to serious ;)

Hi zuisa!


zuisa - Jan 31, 2017 5:54:53 pm PST #6541 of 30002
call me jacki; zuisa is an internet nick from ancient times =)

Thanks for that, WindSparrow.

Hi meara!


askye - Feb 01, 2017 2:40:23 am PST #6542 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

Hi zuisa!

Andi that's beautiful.

I keep telling myself thrive to spite the fuckers.

I stepped away because it's effecting my mental health and also.making me feel bitter and mean spirited and I don't want that.


JZ - Feb 01, 2017 4:25:28 am PST #6543 of 30002
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

I keep telling myself thrive to spite the fuckers.

I love this, askye. Defiance and self-care and hope and anger all in one sentence. LOVE.


Laura - Feb 01, 2017 4:57:47 am PST #6544 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

I keep telling myself thrive to spite the fuckers.

Excellent plan.


Sparky1 - Feb 01, 2017 5:10:17 am PST #6545 of 30002
Librarian Warlord

I am having a lot of trouble with the news so I have really been limiting my consumption and turning it all off when I go home to be with my family. But here is a funny I had to share - two law bloggers live blogging last night's Supreme Court pick:

Elie Mystal: Is there literally any person of color in the room right now?

David Lat: Trump - orange.


askye - Feb 01, 2017 5:22:13 am PST #6546 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

Glad y'all like it.

My therapist did too, he said I should make a t shirt and asked if he could use it as a motto for the trauma groups (without the profanity) I said sure.

To me it's not just living and living well it's especially doing things you wanted but not have done for whatever self doubt/societal expectation reasons.


Steph L. - Feb 01, 2017 5:27:33 am PST #6547 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

it's especially doing things you wanted but not have done for whatever self doubt/societal expectation reasons.

My friend died Monday night at age 58. Life is too damn short. Do the thing. Do all the things.


Gudanov - Feb 01, 2017 6:08:31 am PST #6548 of 30002
Coding and Sleeping

So how long until the filibuster is removed for Supreme Court nominees? I'm thinking nine weeks.