You can't open the book of my life and jump in the middle. Like woman, I'm a mystery.

Mal ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


askye - Jan 21, 2017 4:33:59 pm PST #5927 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

My therapist asked me a couple of weeks ago what my goals were- being the new year and all - and I could barely answer.

So when I see him Tuesday I have goals for him- work on handling my anxiety so I can participate more. Start by working on being able to show up to a meeting or something even if it's just for a few minutes.


Jessica - Jan 21, 2017 5:06:50 pm PST #5928 of 30002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

So far, just about every march has had close to double the expected number of people. In NYC the streets were packed from about 42nd/2nd all the way to Trump Tower. (There was an official route which the police had marked off with barriers, but it was so overcrowded people just started marching wherever there was room. Too bad for anyone trying to get through midtown in a car today!)


Una - Jan 21, 2017 6:07:27 pm PST #5929 of 30002
when i die, please bake my ashes into a brick and use me to hit fascists.

I've got some leftover acrylic yarn from making my own hats, Beverly, if msbelle doesn't have any. Happy to crochet up another while the pattern is still in my head! Profile address good.

(over 1000 people at the march in Richland, WA, in the super conservative eastern side of the state. Uplifiting!!)


msbelle - Jan 21, 2017 7:06:00 pm PST #5930 of 30002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Una - That would be great. I checked and I have no acrylic pink.


-t - Jan 21, 2017 7:43:44 pm PST #5931 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

What a good day! I got my dance on (and we got paid, so, hey, professional belly dancer, y'all! We donated our fee to the museum, but still, they gave it to us first), then grilled cheese and tomato soup for lunch, a quick walk with mom & dad to see the Trolls Under the Mare Island Bridge (Gorgeous! [link] and then to the Mare Island Shoreline Heritage Preserve Candlelight March/Hike. Once we got to the top, a woman who just happened to be hiking the same trail asked me if we were a church group, and when I explained she was so pleased to have accidentally ended up there, which was pretty great.


DavidS - Jan 21, 2017 8:03:47 pm PST #5932 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Huge turnout in San Francisco late in the afternoon, in the rain. And everybody was so cheerful and smiling and feeling salty and sassy. But lots of eye contact and big grins.

So glad we marched. Really reaffirmed our "San Francisco Values" and just so heartened by the all the pictures of the crowds. Not just in America but all around the world.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 21, 2017 8:41:06 pm PST #5933 of 30002
What is even happening?

Hec, when I saw SF on MSNBC, I kept telling myself that you and JZ must be there. Thank you!

I'm so proud of Boston. We had 1.25K marchers, that doesn't seem like much until you realize that's 20% of the population, and for area residents, just imagine four Red Sox games letting out of Fenway Park at the same time.

My anxiety makes it impossible for me to do things like this, but while I'm ashamed of myself, I'm so proud of the women of this nation for rising up. Trying to figure out what I can, with my limitations.


DavidS - Jan 21, 2017 9:07:47 pm PST #5934 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Don't be ashamed, Cindy!

The bad thing about the election was feeling like so many Americans (and a few of my friends) showed me their true face when they voted for Trump. It was very alienating.

And today - the reverse. We marched and there were so many smiles of greeting and acknowledgment. This is my community, my country. And the world. I was incredibly moved by the international response as well.

Didn't mean shit in the electoral vote and we're locked out of the branches of government BUT we outnumber them. And today made that very apparent. Very visible.

And I know you are with me, Cindy. I know you are at my shoulder.


Shir - Jan 21, 2017 9:10:03 pm PST #5935 of 30002
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Thank you for the update, Pix. ~ma, omnis.


sarameg - Jan 21, 2017 9:27:22 pm PST #5936 of 30002

V was so wired/exhausted, after two drinks I made her go upstairs to bed because the bathroom was up there. She was that looped. She thinks she's waking up at 8. Btdt, yeahno.