You know, I've saved lives. Dozens. Maybe hundreds. I reattached a girl's leg. Her whole leg. She named her hamster after me. I got a hamster. He drops a box of money, he gets a town.

Simon ,'Jaynestown'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Nov 02, 2016 10:49:51 am PDT #581 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

So I realized what bugs me overall about my team member -- I don't feel like she appreciates the fact that I hired her (when I was made to create a position for her), so I wish she appreciated literally anything at any point. She's on every fun committee, is barely in the office 9-5 (she doesn't have enough work yet), blah blah blah. That one (legit!) email was just One More Thing.


Dana - Nov 02, 2016 11:06:36 am PDT #582 of 30002
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

I required pie. Fortunately, that requirement has been met.


-t - Nov 02, 2016 11:13:44 am PDT #583 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Hooray pie!

I can see how that would rankle, Jesse.


Jesse - Nov 02, 2016 11:21:03 am PDT #584 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Not like I've done any work myself aside from several meetings this morning. I just did a copy-and-paste task I really could have delegated, but figured I was better off doing that than doing nothing...


P.M. Marc - Nov 02, 2016 11:31:43 am PDT #585 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Welp, rejected for the most recent job I applied/phone screened for, damn it.

Already had pie for lunch.

Did NOT expect this rejection to lead to actual factual ugly crying, but apparently I am out of cope.


Jesse - Nov 02, 2016 11:33:39 am PDT #586 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Ugh, I'm so sorry, Plei.


P.M. Marc - Nov 02, 2016 11:37:47 am PDT #587 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Job-hunting is such a demoralizing task.


askye - Nov 02, 2016 11:46:13 am PDT #588 of 30002
Thrive to spite them

I'm sorry Plei.


P.M. Marc - Nov 02, 2016 11:53:25 am PDT #589 of 30002
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Last time I had to job hunt, I had padding because I'd been laid off from an FTE position and got a package. This time, there's no padding at all (in large part because of huge medical expenses) and I'm far less optimistic about my prospects than I was when I started out last time.

I mean, I had suffered from the delusion that 7.5 years at a major company and a decent-sized network would help me get something decent and that particular delusion has long since vanished in the face of the realities of a niche skillset.

So I guess it's time to pull the trigger on Operation Sell the Car and then pay off as much of my remaining personal debt as I can with whatever proceeds I get. Pity. I love that car.


-t - Nov 02, 2016 11:55:35 am PDT #590 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Job-hunting is terrible. It's like having a job you hate and not getting paid for it and also carrying around a giant ball of stress. Extreme sympathies, PMM.