I wanna die in bed surrounded by fat grandchildren, but guess that's off the menu.

Jenny ,'Bring On The Night'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Topic!Cindy - Sep 24, 2018 5:22:49 pm PDT #29879 of 30002
What is even happening?

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I will not argue with strangers about Brett Kavanaugh and Christine Blasey Ford. I will not argue with strangers about Brett Kavanaugh and Christine Blasey Ford. I will not argue with strangers about Brett Kavanaugh and Christine Blasey Ford. I will not argue with strangers about Brett Kavanaugh and Christine Blasey Ford. I will not argue with strangers about Brett Kavanaugh and Christine Blasey Ford. I will not argue with strangers about Brett Kavanaugh and Christine Blasey Ford. I will not argue with strangers about Brett Kavanaugh and Christine Blasey Ford. I will not argue with strangers about Brett Kavanaugh and Christine Blasey Ford. I will not argue with strangers about Brett Kavanaugh and Christine Blasey Ford. I will not argue with strangers about Brett Kavanaugh and Christine Blasey Ford. I will not argue with strangers about Brett Kavanaugh and Christine Blasey Ford. I will not argue with strangers about Brett Kavanaugh and Christine Blasey Ford.

thunk thunk thunk


Steph L. - Sep 24, 2018 5:25:30 pm PDT #29880 of 30002
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Cindy, I've been having a hard time with that one, too.


Topic!Cindy - Sep 24, 2018 5:30:38 pm PDT #29881 of 30002
What is even happening?

Steph, I usually make it a practice not to do so on Twitter (and more often than not, including this time) the person I want to argue with has only had his account for a year or so (and certainly could be a Russian troll).

I think it was my pedantic nature that caught me up, because he was blathering about "innocent until proven guilty," then he tried some what-aboutism.

Ugh. While the Kavanaugh nomination could matter for the rest of my life, this conversation with this stranger won't matter in five days, never mind five years.

Where have you been struggling with it, Tep, Facebook?


Steph L. - Sep 24, 2018 5:43:27 pm PDT #29882 of 30002
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Where have you been struggling with it, Tep, Facebook?

Yeah, on friends' posts about it, where their other friends (who I don't know) make ignorant comments and I try to not have an aneurysm OR start arguing with them. My blood pressure is probably sky high.


Hil R. - Sep 24, 2018 5:59:56 pm PDT #29883 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

This latest thing with the yearbook is just hitting SO MANY of my triggers. High school sucked. I thought I'd at least somewhat put it behind me. I guess not.


Consuela - Sep 24, 2018 6:50:47 pm PDT #29884 of 30002
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

This latest thing with the yearbook is just hitting SO MANY of my triggers.

OMG yes.

I know the Ford story is awful. And the Ramirez story is awful in a different way. But the business about all the "jokes" about poor Renate?! Holy shit I want to BURN IT ALL DOWN.

This is fucking intolerable.

And I got into it on Twitter with some asshole who was all "how can you ruin someone's life based on weak allegations". I pointed out that a lifetime appointment to the federal judiciary is hardly a life ruined, and Kavanaugh didn't have to accept Trump's nomination.


Hil R. - Sep 24, 2018 7:00:36 pm PDT #29885 of 30002
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I know that there's stuff about me that got past the yearbook censors my senior year. I've deliberately never read most of the stuff in that yearbook. I read what my friends wrote, and I read the stuff written about the dorky academic clubs that I was in, and that's it.


aurelia - Sep 24, 2018 7:26:18 pm PDT #29886 of 30002
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

"innocent until proven guilty"

I usually say, "Do you lead off with that in job interviews?"


WindSparrow - Sep 24, 2018 7:38:07 pm PDT #29887 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

"Innocent until proven guilty."

"You know you're supposed to say, "perfectionism" or something like that when the interviewer asks you what your worst quality is, right?"


aurelia - Sep 24, 2018 7:55:02 pm PDT #29888 of 30002
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Ha!