Jayne (Husband): Oh, I think you might wanna reconsider that last part. See, I married me a powerful ugly creature. Mal (Wife): How can you say that? How can you shame me in front of new people? Jayne (Husband): If I could make you purtier, I would. Mal (Wife): You are not the man I met a year ago.

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Dana - Aug 03, 2018 5:49:01 am PDT #27984 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Yeah, Gud, you were in the HOSPITAL. You shouldn't be doing much.


Gudanov - Aug 03, 2018 5:55:23 am PDT #27985 of 30002
Coding and Sleeping

I'm still going to rest some, but it's going to be a bad, stressful day.


Theodosia - Aug 03, 2018 6:13:52 am PDT #27986 of 30002
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Not just some rest. If you don't want to end up back in the hospital, it's time to say No.


Amy - Aug 03, 2018 6:29:46 am PDT #27987 of 30002
Because books.

Gud, infections that require hospitalization are no joke. Take it easy, and remind everyone else that it's their turn to take care of you.


Matt the Bruins fan - Aug 03, 2018 6:31:39 am PDT #27988 of 30002
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

What she said.

In addition to the bonnet, I now have the mental image of a shark sucking on a big pacifier as the thief pushes the carriage out of the aquarium.


Pix - Aug 03, 2018 8:05:34 am PDT #27989 of 30002
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Gud, we will listen and support you regardless. That said, you are in a toxic, abusive relationship. Your wife is not kind to you or supportive of you. As someone who worked as a domestic violence crisis counselor, I can say with authority that she is the abuser in an emotional cycle of violence. There are many reasons why people stay in these relationships, and I understand having children makes this even more difficult. But I also know from my training that it is important to affirm the truth over and over again until it is possible for you to escape the cycle. So I'm affirming: not normal. Not kind. Not healthy, for you or your kids. Not your fault, despite how much you've been conditioned to believe it is.


Atropa - Aug 03, 2018 10:04:37 am PDT #27990 of 30002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Gud, infections that require hospitalization are no joke. Take it easy, and remind everyone else that it's their turn to take care of you.

I was about to say something similar. After getting out of the hospital, your #1 priority is resting. That includes mentally and emotionally.


Dana - Aug 03, 2018 10:07:55 am PDT #27991 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

You know those cliches where someone is on the phone with an aged parent or something, and all that's really required of you is to vaguely listen and occasionally go "Uh huh" and "Yep" and "Mmmm"?

This is the conversation I'm having with my coworker. I think she wants sympathy about how much she's having to work, but I am not allowed to say that I think she over-complicates everything and it therefore takes her three times as long as it should.


Tom Scola - Aug 03, 2018 10:18:31 am PDT #27992 of 30002
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

The goatpocalypse has begun: [link]


Steph L. - Aug 03, 2018 10:19:33 am PDT #27993 of 30002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

The goatpocalypse has begun:

...as the prophecy foretold.