Jayne: There's times I think you don't take me seriously. I think that ought to change. Mal: Do you think it's likely to?

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Beverly - Jul 21, 2018 10:38:10 am PDT #27632 of 30002
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I get, "I just wanted to read something fun, maybe some angst, and you made me think! I don't know whether to thank you or be mad at you!"

Living in the cloudy, rainy PNW, after weeks of sun, I would kill. maim. use seriously harsh language for some rain right now. I'll remember this unrelenting sun in November, when it'll be weeks and months of unrelenting rain.

The sarameg family trip sounds truly wonderful, and wistfully aware. Lucky to have that memory.

I've been feverishly productive for weeks. I'm flopping on the couch with coffee, peanut butter toast, and piles of fic. So much for accomplishing jack squat today.


meara - Jul 21, 2018 11:08:54 am PDT #27633 of 30002

Msbelle I'm glad I'm not the only unproductive one today. I woke up early but hen managed to get back to sleep until about 9...at which point I got up, fed the kitten, had breakfast, and took migraine meds and went back to bed. I woke up at noon and freaked out a little because my meds weren't working and I still had pain and nausea. But thankfully they just needed a little more time. Feeling mostly ok (fragile-ly so) now thank god. But thinking none of my plans for the day (pride on the beach or a craft fair) sound good with sun and crowds.


aurelia - Jul 21, 2018 12:11:21 pm PDT #27634 of 30002
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Aurelia, did you get rid of the table?

Nope. Totally ghosted.


Dana - Jul 21, 2018 12:23:32 pm PDT #27635 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Trying to sell stuff to people is such a pain in the ass.

You keep thinking you've adjusted to the heat, and then it gets hotter. It's 110 today.


msbelle - Jul 21, 2018 12:42:07 pm PDT #27636 of 30002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

And I was thwarted at the 3:40 movie by "peak pricing". FU moviepass - I pay $10/mo and I will not pay more. I will attempt movie seeing later and I will check for $%^%$ peak pricing before I leave.

Precious noodle muffin mac is so upset. He does not like the car he has use of (PT Cruiser we got for a song and the have paid as much again for needed maintenance). He wants a COOL CAR, a 3 year old Dodge Charger that he has found. I have told him that 1) I will not help buy a car and 2) I will not pay for insurance for any car other that the one we already have for his use.

We just looked up insurance costs for a 17 year old male who has been licensed less than a year and already in one total loss accident. drumroll please.... $10K a year. Bless.

His fast food job pulls in at most $850 a month and the charger was going to be costing him $600/mo.

He is just distraught. I do not see how I raised a child who cannot face realities of not getting all of what you want. Does he not see how we live? Has he not shopped on sale racks and for store brand things his whole life?

I am trying to be encouraging and suggest he just save his money to buy a car outright when he finishes 2 years of community college. You would think I suggested he pluck his eyes out.


WindSparrow - Jul 21, 2018 1:15:36 pm PDT #27637 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Poor bereft noodle. I can't remember having a 3 year old car, ever. The youngest one I ever had was 9 years old when I got it.

ETA: While there is a little sarcasm there, I am also wincing in solidarity. I can remember that kind of want.


Jesse - Jul 21, 2018 1:33:35 pm PDT #27638 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I do not see how I raised a child who cannot face realities of not getting all of what you want. Does he not see how we live? Has he not shopped on sale racks and for store brand things his whole life?

Kids are a mystery.


msbelle - Jul 21, 2018 2:01:00 pm PDT #27639 of 30002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

he is full on ridiculous. Cars he is looking at: Cadillacs, Chargers, Camaros.

The lowest insurance quote he got was $7500/year.


aurelia - Jul 21, 2018 2:11:50 pm PDT #27640 of 30002
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

My first car (in 1987) was a '71 Nova. It was cool in its own way though. My grandfather had it painted in a custom color (a very dark brown with a bit of sparkle vs the original baby poop brown) and installed glass packs before I got it. Probably the biggest difference though, is that my peer group all had old cars that we made cool on our own and struggled to keep running. The one kid with a new car was the outlier.


DavidS - Jul 21, 2018 2:24:09 pm PDT #27641 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

My first car was a VW squareback that I bought used with money I made on my first job.

But my dad spent almost as much money fixing the brakes.

Still, I didn't feel entitled to a Camaro. I was just happy to be able to get around and have my friends kick in gas money.