Angel: Connor, this is Spike and Illyria. Guys, this is Connor. Connor: Hi. umm...I like your outfit. Illyria: Your body warms. This one is lusting after me. Connor: Oh...no, I--I--it's just that it's the outfit. I guess I've had a thing for older women. Angel: They were supposed to fix that.

'Origin'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Tom Scola - Jul 19, 2018 4:08:13 pm PDT #27601 of 30002
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

I want that too. Maybe only 20 minutes?

On Wednesdays, I have two consecutive sessions. So, yesterday, I had a 90 minute meltdown. I was soft-peddling.


Jesse - Jul 19, 2018 4:14:00 pm PDT #27602 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Jesse I think that's what a lot of life coaches are. But then, I alsoroll my eyes at a lot of like, 23 year olds who are "life coaches". Because really.

Oh yeah -- a woman I used to work with quit to be a life coach, and maybe she was 27? I don't think she had enough life to coach anyone else!

Seriously, anyone wants to lie on my couch and talk to me, I will charge half what you're paying now!


Amy - Jul 19, 2018 5:21:14 pm PDT #27603 of 30002
Because books.

I would love that, to know that someone I knew and liked and trusted was listening, and could give advice. It's so hard to find a therapist I feel like I can talk to.


Katerina Bee - Jul 19, 2018 7:26:17 pm PDT #27604 of 30002
Herding cats for fun

Bah blah blah yak yak yak digress diversify comment yabber yabber yabber...

I am talking and I can't shut up. This is how I know I exist.

I do not see your pained expression nor how you keep sidling away from me. I know I am fascinating and you enjoy hearing from me even though you are sitting there turning the pages of your book.

..... I've spent some time with people who blow a lot of hot air, can you tell?


sarameg - Jul 19, 2018 7:54:52 pm PDT #27605 of 30002

Connie, I really think you'd like the south coast of Iceland. Crashing noth Atlantic, the churn of pebbles as waves retreat.

I should be asleep, but i can't stop thinking about our trip & my time with my parents. It was really good. And sobering (hello, mortality!) and I've been sad since I dropped them at the airport. Even an evening swim in the sun at Druid was a short balm. I MISS them. I only once got truly exasperated (after over 24 hrs w/ no break)and even then, I just hid until I was good again. 17 goddamned days, majority with me running the show & I was sorry to see them go. Huh?

Probably mom's last big excursion to unfamiliar.It had some hard parts that I had the..privilege? of wrangling. But I learned how to handle it, for the right then. The loss of short term memory, attendant anxiety, sundowning, etc. associated means MY relationship with her & dad is changing. But I don't want to treat her as lacking autonomy. It's a fine balance. And yes, it's scary. She was the last one we expected any issues from, herself included.We're all catching up.


NoiseDesign - Jul 19, 2018 8:13:04 pm PDT #27606 of 30002
Our wings are not tired

Enjoy every moment you have with them.


Theodosia - Jul 20, 2018 1:49:37 am PDT #27607 of 30002
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Yesterday I learned what a canister purge valve does in my car. Today I find out how much it costs to replace it.


lisah - Jul 20, 2018 2:15:04 am PDT #27608 of 30002
Punishingly Intricate

That's great you were able to take this trip, sara


Fred Pete - Jul 20, 2018 2:34:31 am PDT #27609 of 30002
Ann, that's a ferret.

she's STILL TALKING

Am I terrible for thinking of Faye Dunaway's character in Network?


Steph L. - Jul 20, 2018 5:24:11 am PDT #27610 of 30002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

It's pouring down rain and is supposed to pour all day, which means I'm trapped in the house with sonic boom SiL. I foresee disappearing to the bedroom for a "nap" for most of the day.

It's raining so hard that the option of hopping in the car to buy souvenirs isn't really appealing. But it might have to happen.