Oh Sue, I just saw your post. I'm so incredibly sorry. I also am a person who deals with grief and stress by shifting into logistics mode, so I completely understand that. I hope you have good people around you who can be there for you through this terrible time.
Inara: We thought we lost you. Mal: Well, I've been right here.
'Out Of Gas'
Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Pix - May 23, 2018 5:23:49 pm PDT #25523 of 30002
The status is NOT quo.
Burrell - May 23, 2018 5:37:26 pm PDT #25524 of 30002
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
wrong scandal. Yikes. I thought it was the Puliafito then Varma issue. This is awful.
OMG how many scandals do we fricking need?!?! I mean, don't get me wrong, Puliafito was cause enough for Nikias to step down, Puliafito followed by Varma?! Needs to go. And then THIS
Sue - May 23, 2018 5:40:45 pm PDT #25525 of 30002
hip deep in pie
Thanks so much for your love and support. It means a lot.
Consuela - May 23, 2018 6:14:32 pm PDT #25526 of 30002
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix
Take care of yourself, Sue.
And I know it's a bit after-the-fact, but I recommend the book "When Someone Dies" -- there's a Kindle edition on Amazon, and it's super helpful on all sorts of practical issues.
lisah - May 23, 2018 7:08:21 pm PDT #25527 of 30002
Punishingly Intricate
Oh my god, I'm so sorry, Sue. Sending love.
Nora Deirdre - May 23, 2018 8:12:23 pm PDT #25528 of 30002
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Dear lord, Sue - that is a horrible chain of events. I literally gasped out loud when I read your post. Thinking about you and your poor dad.
Shir - May 24, 2018 2:01:36 am PDT #25529 of 30002
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
Sue, dear, I am only now reading your beep me, and this almost leaves me without words.
I am so, so sorry. If there is anything that we can do here from afar, please say so. And as everyone said, yes, please take care of yourself.
Strix - May 24, 2018 3:57:10 am PDT #25530 of 30002
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
Oh my God, Sue, that is just awful. I am so sorry.
Theodosia - May 24, 2018 8:42:42 am PDT #25531 of 30002
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"
I saw my uncle briefly this weekend, who just lost my aunt, his wife of 66 years -- he seems so =lost=. Be there as much as possible for your Dad, Sue, or at least as much as he'll allow. (I'm getting teary just thinking of your Dad.)
meara - May 24, 2018 9:38:21 am PDT #25532 of 30002
Oh man. Someone posted elsewhere about #hometovote for Ireland's abortion referendum. Made me tear up especially because I remember seeing the same thing when there was a vote on gay marriage and it made me cry and cry (happy tears). Hope this one turns out good.