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Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DavidS - Mar 12, 2018 9:52:00 am PDT #23100 of 30002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Ugh, David. I had hoped that saga was over. Hope it is solved without major efforts.

It's officially a clusterfuck now.

The Principal and Vice Principal met with me. They made it clear that they didn't want Mr. Whiteside at the school but that the decision had been made at the district level.

After a long, forthright discussion of what could and could not be done, they referred me to the School District lawyer who had made the decision.

I just tried to call him and he specifically refused taking my call, referring me back to the Principal!

Muthafuckin' weasel stonewalling lawyer bullshit!

More infuriating it was conveyed to me that the district is basically bending to legal threats from the religious group's attorneys.

My way forward is through direct parent contact and action, the PTA, the School Board and possibly the ACLU depending on how grumpy I am about this shit.

But I don't appreciate getting the stonewall from the school's lawyer.


Laura - Mar 12, 2018 9:59:48 am PDT #23101 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

That is awful news, David.


Connie Neil - Mar 12, 2018 10:06:44 am PDT #23102 of 30002
brillig

Know any crusading journalists, David?


Consuela - Mar 12, 2018 10:17:10 am PDT #23103 of 30002
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

David, I would recommend asking the principal what reassurances they were given that this guy won't pull the same shit again. If what he did was against district policy, then he probably got a warning, and there should be a process in place for reporting if he does it again. That may be all you can do at this point, but it's good to know the school officials are on your side.


-t - Mar 12, 2018 10:30:05 am PDT #23104 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, David, I'm sorry. That's terrible.


JZ - Mar 12, 2018 10:47:24 am PDT #23105 of 30002
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

RAAAAAGE. Goddamnit. And I DO NOT get it. Solo contacting the kids via social media and taking them out for ice cream ought to be a super-firing no-second-chances that-is-IT offense.

And feel free to weaponize me if you need to, (i.e., if the group starts whining about being persecuted just like Christ): "My churchgoing Sunday school teaching wife also thinks this is bullshit and wants him gone."


Dana - Mar 12, 2018 11:06:02 am PDT #23106 of 30002
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

There was a shooting threat at the college my dad works at this morning. They caught him pretty quickly, but still. Not loving this.


Calli - Mar 12, 2018 12:45:19 pm PDT #23107 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

David and JZ, that's appalling. I'm sorry you have to go through so much bother to make your school safe for your daughter. Your district leadership is full of crap.

I'm glad your dad's ok, Dana.


Sheryl - Mar 12, 2018 12:56:03 pm PDT #23108 of 30002
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I'm sorry, David and JZ. Best of luck with this.


Sophia Brooks - Mar 12, 2018 1:13:01 pm PDT #23109 of 30002
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

As you all might know, I am having a lot of dental work. Today, I had two fillings, which went well. When the blackboard off, I had this swollen rough lump under my tongue. After Googling like crazy with no real resu!ts, it has disappeared! I am glad I don't have tongue cancer!