When my mom was so sick, I was 800 miles away. My sister did almost all the caretaking, and I felt horrible about it. All I could do was talk to her, and research stuff. We talked every day, sometimes twice. I drove down to spend a long weekend whenever I could. It never felt like I was doing enough, even though it wasn't possible for me to do more without quitting my job. Which would've been stupid and we both knew it. I still feel guilty though. Sometimes the world just gets in the way.
Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Many, many ~mas to Strix and JZ.
Oh JZ, that is so hard. Much love and ma to you.
My plan for the day included going to the office for a while and also getting to my band thing for sometime between two and three. Since I'm still home, I'm not sure how that's all going to work out. If I can motivate right now, at least I could do an hour+ at the office, which is better than nothing, I guess?
But I do not want to motivate right now! Or go to the office! Pfui.
Jesse, so far I haven't manage to motivate my ass out of bed ( so comfy!) so I can't help. But good luck!
But it's so much earlier where you are!
I think I can do it. At least I can get to the office and see how things go.
Update: Dad is stable right now.
And I honestly don't know how to feel about this.
You don't have to know, Strix.
In much lighter news, here is a lesson I have learned today: Don't fret before you have the whole story. I saw an email Friday from someone looking for updates on work I haven't done for him, but I didn't read the whole thing. Guess what? Two of the three are in motion, AND he's out next week, so I can definitely get the third done by then! Phew.
Timelies all!
Just got back from lunch and the supermarket. Put Mr.S in his crib in a vain attempt to get him to nap. Doesn't seem to be working, but at least he's not underfoot for the moment.(For some reason I was having a "I can't even" morning where he was constantly annoying me.)
my lesson of the day, eating helps. I forgot to eat when I got up. So eating something 4 hours later made me feel 1000X better.