I was assuming Miss [actual first name] which I have been told makes women approximately my age feel old when I do it to them. I don't mean anything by it, in my head it's affectionate if anything.
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Miss Firstname. This is a common cultural convention in the South to indicate respect; my new staff member is in her 20s and is African-American. So it totally makes sense and is touching in that cultural context, but it's not generally used between peers, and I think of her as my peer but clearly I'm now a respected elder!
I know it's supposed to be a Southern term of respect, but I keep hearing a silent "Bless your heart" when someone uses it on me.
A woman here in Utah spent several years in the South and said "Everyone was just so lovely to me and my children. So friendly and cordial, I don't know how many people said 'Bless your heart.'" Everyone else said, "Oh, how sweet," while I winced for the poor woman who had no idea.
See, I am just that respectful of my peers.
I kind of don't have anything to do, work-wise. Don't tell anyone.
I mean, people do say Bless Your Heart in a non-snarky way in the south, too.
It's on Fox, so it would only be cancelled quickly if it were quality. Brace yourselves for a 16+ season run.
Hahaha!
You guys, I just genuinely thought, "Oh good -- I could work late tomorrow!" The fuck is wrong with me?
OK, I realized it's mostly because that means I don't have to do any more work today. Phew!
That's ok then.
Ha, just remembered I was semi-planning to take 3/1 off for Purim. I guess I won't do that, as that's my start date and I didn't say anything.