Oh JZ, how shitty. I hope there are good treatments that will help him
Friend finally managed to get the safe open, but basically there's not a lot left she can take away from him, and trying to get him to do work to pay it back is unlikely as well. He's sometimes fine—hung out with a few of us playing a board game and eating dinner, this evening—but just does not get consequences. I asked what he would've thought would happen if he got the safe open—he didn't but she obviously would've noticed! She was like "he would've felt justified and been like "hah, I have my phone now and you can't get it from me". So tough. They're starting a new program for him and hoping it works. I just worry that he's getting older and bigger, and if he gets in any real trouble outside of home, he's likely to end up shot or something. I know she worries too.