Zoe: Yeah? Thought you'd get land crazy that long in port. Wash: Probably, but I've been sane a long while now, and change is good.

'Shindig'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Zenkitty - Dec 28, 2017 7:59:11 am PST #20355 of 30002
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Good news, Gizmo!

Glad the medicine is working, -t!

My property taxes don't get anywhere near 10k, so I'm going to leave it alone and cross my fingers.

I know how to be financially responsible. I just don't do it, most of the time. My family has no idea how much I've fucked up my finances in the past. I'm doing okay now, I have a few credit cards to pay off, and I'm really trying not to get into a mess again. It's a combination of anxiety/depression and a stubborn reaction against being raised in a household where the money motto was "don't spend any money". Don't buy anything you can live without, buy the cheapest version of everything, everyone is out to rip you off. My mom would say, "It's not how much you have coming in, it's how you let it go out!" which, idk mom no. We'd have benefited more from learning how to handle having more money than basic survival needs, but none of us knew that. The Great Depression hung over our heads forever.


Laura - Dec 28, 2017 8:01:41 am PST #20356 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

We don't have state income tax in Florida. Just real estate and sales taxes.


-t - Dec 28, 2017 8:06:43 am PST #20357 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Just got the word that tomorrow is a short day. Hooray!

I think I may re-invent myself as a Rational Calendar Reform crackpot. 12 30-day months with 5-6 days of Non-calendrical time at the end of the year.


Laura - Dec 28, 2017 8:06:52 am PST #20358 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Mom was amazing with the fiscal responsibility. She was also raised by her Irish immigrant grandmother and born in 1921, so different mindset. Yeah, I know how to do it, but don't. What is worse, my sister pays my bills and does my books so when I eat out someplace crazy expensive, or do something financially reckless I tend to take out cash to do it so I can lie to her! I am a 63 yo teenager hiding stuff from my big sister.

At this age I am starting to think about it more. Mostly in wanting to have a paid off house and renewable energy and that sort of thing to have a minimal monthly nut when we retire. Still working on getting DH to live on a boat. That could happen too.


-t - Dec 28, 2017 8:08:30 am PST #20359 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Living on a boat is one of the options I like to daydream about. Would require getting rid of a lot of my stuff, but that's probably a good plan regardless. My parents have the paid off house with solar panels, it's a good goal.


NoiseDesign - Dec 28, 2017 8:30:43 am PST #20360 of 30002
Our wings are not tired

To muddy the waters a bit more on the property tax issue the IRS released guidance yesterday that prepaying 2018 taxes is only deductible if they have been assessed in 2017.


Laura - Dec 28, 2017 9:23:49 am PST #20361 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.

Yay Alabama! Bye Bye NoMoore.


Amy - Dec 28, 2017 10:08:23 am PST #20362 of 30002
Because books.

I have so much to say on this topic, but I'm in the midst of the Great Filing Experiment at the bakery, and surrounded by paper I need to have put *somewhere* logical before I leave at 4 p.m.


SuziQ - Dec 28, 2017 10:26:23 am PST #20363 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I'm pretty sure I won't be able to claim Head of Household this year. Bites.

I have a ticket to see Hamilton in late February. Yay, right? That is just over a week after my foot surgery, so not so yay. I called to see about shifting the date (they haven't opened it up to additional purchases yet, so I wasn't sure). The run here goes through the end of March, which is when I'll still be "non-weight bearing". Not only was I able to change my ticket to March 21st, but she was also able to move me to accessible seating in the orchestra (from the balcony). Pretty big YAY there. Now I'm crossing my fingers that I'll be able to get a second ticket, so whoever drives me can see the show too.


-t - Dec 28, 2017 10:29:48 am PST #20364 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Aw, all the people who are retiring at the end of the year are sending out there goodbye emails. I'm happy for all of them, but they're all nice people that I will miss.

Yay accessible Hamilton!