And my aunt has passed. My dad just sent an e-mail. I tried to call him and ended up crying on his voicemail. I sent a text with love to the cousin I've been talking with. Now I'm sitting in Starbucks trying to not completely bawl.
Nothing worse than a monster who thinks he's right with God.
Mal ,'Heart Of Gold'
Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
SuziQ - Nov 09, 2017 8:30:08 am PST #18730 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
Calli - Nov 09, 2017 8:35:16 am PST #18731 of 30002
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
I'm so sorry, SuziQ.
Steph L. - Nov 09, 2017 8:36:29 am PST #18732 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Suzi, I'm so sorry.
With the cold, and knowing Steph's fondness, here's a recipe for a casserole topped with tater tots.
That looks yummy!
Laura - Nov 09, 2017 8:45:13 am PST #18733 of 30002
Our wings are not tired.
I'm sorry, Suzi.
Atropa - Nov 09, 2017 8:53:09 am PST #18734 of 30002
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
Suzi, I'm so sorry.
Someone who was a failure would not tell anyone they were quitting and just not show up to performances. IJS.
shrift is wise. Also, taking care of yourself is NOT being a failure.
I find Tumblr works for me for fannish stuff, but I'm very selective about who I follow, I have Xkit installed so I can blacklist a lot of things, and I never EVER go searching through tags. That way lies madness and rage.
-t - Nov 09, 2017 8:54:39 am PST #18735 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
{{{Suzi}}}
Steph L. - Nov 09, 2017 9:00:24 am PST #18736 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
I never EVER go searching through tags. That way lies madness and rage.
I only search tags very selectively. (For instance, anything related to The Good Place seems to always be happy and yay, so I feel safe searching those tags. Riverdale tags, OTOH, are dicey. I haven't even attempted Riverdale on Tumblr after last night's episode.)
Consuela - Nov 09, 2017 9:00:43 am PST #18737 of 30002
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix
Oh, Suzi, I'm so sorry.
This is just a shitty year.
Tom Scola - Nov 09, 2017 9:04:44 am PST #18738 of 30002
hwæt
I'm so sorry Suzi.
SuziQ - Nov 09, 2017 9:08:39 am PST #18739 of 30002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
Thanks y'all. Finally talked with my dad. Also talked with CJ and told him. Aunt U is the only aunt my kids really know on my dad's side of the family. I texted Kelly to call me (not an emergency) cause I don't want to tell her by text.
Fuck, this hurts. It has been years since I've seen her in person, I think the last time was over 10 years ago. She was very direct and always gave the T. I know her sisters-in-law felt she came across as judgemental and harsh but I think that was more cultural differences than any actual malice. Persians are extraordinarily polite and hold those thoughts to themselves.