Dawn: I think a date should be in a real fancy restaurant, then champagne at a night club with a floor show, then ballroom dancing. Joyce: Unfortunately, we're not dating in a movie from the thirties.

'Get It Done'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


msbelle - Sep 30, 2017 11:43:18 am PDT #17238 of 30002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Oh god, I just found 2 graduation cards from last spring (nope, not last, 2016!!) that I never sent off AND 1 from the year before (2015!). Jesusita I am often times a mess. OK, adding in a mea culpa note to each and getting these in the mail.

2 of these, I should note, are FAMILY.


beekaytee - Sep 30, 2017 12:58:33 pm PDT #17239 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

Bee, at least there's pretty strong renter rights in DC?

Meara, the extra special tenant's rights in DC are mainly reserved for large groups of people in multi-family units.

There are lots of things single units are not protected from. I'm figuring what I can do. Which, right now, seems like not much.

I have to get through my hypnosis school in the next two weeks, so there is not a lot I can do.

Also, the dear friend I am helping through the dying process is doing really poorly. She weighs about 70lbs and cannot eat. And yet, her mind is perfectly clear. It's so sad.

Have any of you worked through recipes to help elders get optimal calories? I have to puree everything because she has am esophageal stent.

To be honest, I am not struggling to turn this boat around, but to keep her as comfortable as possible until her heart gives out.


Jesse - Sep 30, 2017 1:05:40 pm PDT #17240 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I'm sorry you're dealing with all of that. Toward the end, I'm pretty sure my grandfather mostly ate ice cream.

And my father just gets regular food pureed.


beekaytee - Sep 30, 2017 1:09:30 pm PDT #17241 of 30002
Compassionately intolerant

I keep trying ice cream but it doesn't sit well.

The hospice nurse says that there are no empty calories, so I'm trying everything. So far, potato soup is the only thing that works consistently.


Tom Scola - Sep 30, 2017 1:10:38 pm PDT #17242 of 30002
hwæt

Today I did:

[x] Clean off dining room table
[x] Clean bathroom, toilet, bathtub
[x] Wash dishes
[x] Clean off coffee table
[x] Take out trash
[x] Drop off compost
[x] Make bed
[x] Fold laundry

But I didn't get to:

[ ] Put away dishes
[ ] Dust
[ ] Put away books and comics
[ ] Vacuum
[ ] Clean off desk

Stupid mild depression/lack of motivation. I really need to get my apartment clean.


Dana - Sep 30, 2017 1:11:32 pm PDT #17243 of 30002
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

Scola, you did like nine times as much stuff as I did today. Don't beat yourself up.


Jesse - Sep 30, 2017 1:13:31 pm PDT #17244 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Seriously -- all of those things could/should be on my list, and I haven't done shit. I guess I could say I made the bed, but that's just pulling the duvet up.


-t - Sep 30, 2017 1:54:07 pm PDT #17245 of 30002
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's a lot more than I did, Scola.

And Jesse, for that matter.

And I kinda want a nap now.


Pix - Sep 30, 2017 1:58:18 pm PDT #17246 of 30002
The status is NOT quo.

I drove my mom to the airport this morning. Then I came home and sat on a couch until I took a nap. You're doing awesome, Scola.


Amy - Sep 30, 2017 2:07:09 pm PDT #17247 of 30002
Because books.

I went to the library to pick up books, took Sara to the doctor, had McDonald's for lunch, and then napped for four hours. Be proud, Scola.