Police procedure has changed since I was little.

Wash ,'The Message'


Natter 75: More Than a Million Natters Served  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sparky1 - Jul 10, 2017 12:42:25 am PDT #13656 of 30002
Librarian Warlord

Happy birthday, hippocampus!


Jesse - Jul 10, 2017 2:54:00 am PDT #13657 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Sounds like a good birthday, Sara!

And hope hippocampus's is as well!

Is it the place in New Orleans? (N7) Or is this a thing in other places?

It's a thing everywhere now, I guess? This place is here.


hippocampus - Jul 10, 2017 3:11:46 am PDT #13658 of 30002
not your mom's socks.

Happy belated birthday Sarah! Good luck with the dentist!

Thanks you all!!


Steph L. - Jul 10, 2017 3:44:57 am PDT #13659 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Happy Belated Birthday Sara! I hope the root canal goes smoothly.

Happy Birthday, hippocampus! And happy book submission day!


WindSparrow - Jul 10, 2017 3:56:38 am PDT #13660 of 30002
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Well sarameg, you deserve a multi-day festival to celebrate your birthday. Happy belated birthday! It sounds like you had a lovely day.


Jesse - Jul 10, 2017 4:45:59 am PDT #13661 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Crap, I realized this weekend that I'm already a couple of weeks overdue for a hair cut/color, but looking at my calendar, I don't think I'll be able to get into her until next week at least. Ah well.


Steph L. - Jul 10, 2017 5:20:12 am PDT #13662 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I'm so annoyed at the emotional labor that women have to do. Our friends are getting married in 3 weeks. Best Man sent Tim a message that literally said "I am organizing [Groom]'s bachelor party." No info on date, time, etc. So Tim's reaction was basically "...okay?"

The bride just messaged me and said "[Best Man] is trying to organize [Groom]'s bachelor party and hasn't heard back from Tim. Can he go?"

Raaaaaaage.

So I had to reply to the bride that Best Man offered up no details, so Tim didn't know he was supposed to commit to something that had no date, time, or details. It's not the bride's job to wrangle the Best Man's failure to plan, AND I am not a secretary for my husband.


Jesse - Jul 10, 2017 6:00:49 am PDT #13663 of 30002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh HELL no. That is ridiculous.


Connie Neil - Jul 10, 2017 6:24:11 am PDT #13664 of 30002
brillig

"Can Timmy come out and play?"


Steph L. - Jul 10, 2017 6:30:02 am PDT #13665 of 30002
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

To be clear, I'm not annoyed at Bride. I'm annoyed at Best Man (who is a giant racist misogynistic abusive ass who I avoid like the Black Death whenever possible) for his inability to communicate (and possibly plan), so that the labor had to get shifted to Bride. I mean, he skipped right over having Groom contact Tim and had Bride contact me. Which, now that I think about it, is entirely unsurprising.