And having posted that Beep Me, I would just like to say here what wasn't appropriate to post there: fuck cancer. BC is such a good guy, and he's leaving us far too soon. Drew and I got to spend a few hours with him on Sunday. We had no idea that hug at the end would be the last time we would see him. I don't know how long he has left, but I am so grateful that his pain has been minimal in these final days and that his mom and sister are with him.
And did I mention fuck cancer?
Ugh. Pix, should we just post on his wall in FB?
That's probably best, Vortex, and I think easiest for his family if it's on the thread where Darla posted the update.
I do not like it, Sam I Am.
Fuck cancer. I never met omnis but he seemed like a super decent human being, and we have far too few of those these days.
Fair winds and following seas, BC.
Thank you for the updates, Pix. Many thoughts to you and Drew in this, too.
I don't have any other coherent words about it, so...
Thank you for the update, Pix. I'm crying. It's just so fucking wrong.
So, guys. Years come, years go, and I still don't have a FB account. Is anyone here willing to carry some words to the update on BC's status on my behalf? Profile addy/here is good.
Shir, of course. Insent. eta: and message passed along
I am grateful that I was able to spend time with BC in LA. Brendon and I were both impressed with him in so many ways. It is so wrong and heartbreaking.
I had another friend succumb to liver cancer just 2 days ago. She was an RN who contracted HepC from an emergency patient. She had had a successful liver transplant and followed every rule for keeping her new organ healthy, but cancer has no rules. It is only cruel.