So I have this cousin that adores me, and I him. But he basically has no filters and ..stuff ( I'm guessing he's autistic but we've never been told and I don't know he's been diagnosed. The Midwestern denial runs strong in that family.) Anyway, he's on fb and we've had the occasional run in where I've either had to tell him "inappropriate, stop it" or he's taken something I've said completely wrong. Uhg. I'm one of the few cousins who will really engage him because the rest tend to get all offended and off put, where I'm mostly able to negotiate the gap between his communication and intent and call out of bounds when he's being too much. In person, he takes my limit setting pretty well, but on fb, gets all butthurt. Sigh. I'd just block him, but he'd notice and God forbid he mention it to his mom, who is still pretty fragile after losing my uncle and worrying about him. Oh family.

Not sure about the "if he's the owner". I'd probably tip $20 if he's not. Unless it was like, a super easy "hey, I walked this chair three steps into your house", vs "I maneuvered a couch up two flights of stairs"?

JZ, I would tip if you feel the service deserved it. I would likely decide in the moment.

sarameg, my guess is that he adores you because you communicate with him on a level that others don't. Pick your battles. But keep communication open as it is likely valuable for him.

I don't think I've ever tipped the furniture delivery guy.

Yeah, I plan to. Just finding a bunch of butthurt IMs, realizing I gotta send a careful clarification...it's tiring. His partner has my respect. I suspect her esl status helps, she's always asking him to rephrase, to say what he means. Her patience must come from when she was much less fluent (she's pretty cautious around new people in social situations, and yet she's a restaurant mgr in a fancy pants place, so communication isn't a core issue.)

um east coast? GO TO BED OR AT LEAST GET OFFA YOUR COMPUTER.

you are welcome.

um east coast? GO TO BED OR AT LEAST GET OFFA YOUR COMPUTER.

Noooooooo.

Actually, literally no, because I have work to do still. Freelancing time-management fail.

If I'm getting up at 5:30, got at least 2 more hrs.

I t heart msbelle.

I don't think I have ever tipped furniture delivery guys, unless DH did for me. Do not know the protocol. Mostly pick up my furniture myself or assemble it, though.

Sounds like maybe the infamous tone on the internet problem rearing its ugly head, sarameg. Hope navigating is not too fraught.

Now that I have young kids, I feel like if I didn't have them I would just sleep all the time, like at least 10 hours a night, plus naps. Sleeeeeep. I wants it.