Jayne: There's times I think you don't take me seriously. I think that ought to change. Mal: Do you think it's likely to?

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Burrell - Oct 19, 2015 3:12:54 pm PDT #7338 of 30003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

As in "I can't prescribe this drug to you because parts of it are harmful in the wrong amount"? IE, "the scientific discovery that small amounts of dangerous chemicals have life-saving abilities is a no-no because you shouldn't ingest icky naughty things that could be harmful, m'kay?"

That's my worry, but I'm hoping he knows better and was just being very inarticulate. Which, okay, still a problem for a writing class but at least I don't have to worry about his comprehension of science.


Jesse - Oct 19, 2015 3:34:37 pm PDT #7339 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Walking through Target yesterday, I discovered the Intimates section has Avengers pajama bottoms for women!

...what?! Well, clearly I need to go to Target this weekend, because I HAVE A MIGHTY NEED.

Seriously!

jesus f, people. STOP SENDING ME IMs THAT JUST SAY HI.

SAME. I also have one who IMs me, "Do you have a minute?" I would have been done answering your question if you had just asked it already!!


sarameg - Oct 19, 2015 4:15:53 pm PDT #7340 of 30003

Sour stomach all damned day. At least I was at home where I could manage it easily. But after my swim, got an amazing compliment from a fellow swimmer, so that was nice.

My city's awesome youth are protesting and pretty much a hundred times more accountable and grown up than the damn adults in leadership. It depressing right now, but gives me hope they'll eventually be the ones leading the city.

Cone free! Hopefully it sticks.


meara - Oct 19, 2015 4:51:07 pm PDT #7341 of 30003

But it seems so abrupt to just IM someone "do you know yet if Toa is coming to Tucson with me next week?!?" But I usually write hi or hey or do you have a sec and then pretty immediately send a next one with the actual question. Unless I want a phone call for deniability reasons. Then it's "hey, got a second? I wanted to talk about Toa..."


Jesse - Oct 19, 2015 4:57:04 pm PDT #7342 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Yeah, it's the waiting for a response that's annoying, IMO.


Jesse - Oct 19, 2015 5:00:40 pm PDT #7343 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

So I just accidentally watched five minutes of Jane the Virgin and now I definitely have to start watching it. Should I go back to the beginning, or can I just jump in?


Emily - Oct 19, 2015 5:09:38 pm PDT #7344 of 30003
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

I'm totally a "hi" person. I never realized it was such an issue! Thing is, sometimes if I have a question, my action depends on the result, and having it asked but not answered is a different thing than never having asked it, so I need to know the person's available before I ask it. That, and I feel really awkward saying, "Hey, [topical and timely joke, comment, or sympathy]" and not getting a reply for a week (or several years, which makes reigniting the conversation particularly weird.)

But I will attempt to be more aware of when I need a pingback and when I just want one so I don't feel awkward. Adjustment made, possibly fewer people annoyed.


Jesse - Oct 19, 2015 5:13:25 pm PDT #7345 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I'm going to say this is just a thing at work, not my personal life. When you can tell I'm there!


brenda m - Oct 19, 2015 5:16:25 pm PDT #7346 of 30003
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

But I usually write hi or hey or do you have a sec and then pretty immediately send a next one with the actual question.

That's totally fine. And I can see if they continue typing so I will wait for sec before getting my rage on.

But Hi and then nothing until I stop what I'm doing and respond? Nuh and uh. That's way more intrusive than email.

ETA = and yeah, this is all about work. Different rules apply.


Dana - Oct 19, 2015 5:20:44 pm PDT #7347 of 30003
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I think you can totally jump into Jane the Virgin, but there's also so much fun stuff if you start from the beginning. It's a telenovela, though, and the Narrator usually sums up what you need to know at the beginning of each episode.