A little Ryan talk. This year I've joined the office footy tipping competition. I've avoided it for my first four years here, because it's an Aussie rules comp. Australia, despite having fewer people than Texas, nonetheless manages to have two major football codes - rugby league and Aussie rules (comps run by the NRL and AFL respectively). We also find room for Rugby union and soccer. I follow League, as Canberra (from whence I hail) has an NRL team but no AFL team. However, my new home of Melbourne is Rules central, with nine AFL teams (half the comp) and just one NRL team.
I have therefore avoided being sucked into the office tipping, until this year. The reason is Ryan, of course. My boy attends school in Melbourne and I have been unable to shield him from learning a thing or two about aerial ping-pong. (He still tells me he prefers rugby league; so I think he's already staked out one battleground for his teenage rebellion years. Ah well, as long as he still thinks echidnas are cool.)
Every week, then, Ryan and I peruse the fixtures for that week and make our tips. By which I mean his tips. I have mentored him in reading the ladder, bookies' odds, tipping stats etc. but every tip has been his. (He gets really into it, and is disappointed that I won't spend my entire weekend refreshing the live scores every three minutes.)
From the very first week, the leader of the competition has been one of the principals of the firm, George. He's led by a varying margin week after week, right up until the last weekend, when that changed. As of this week, the leader of my office competition (by 1 point) is Ryan. There is one week left to go.
Ryan is thrilled, and pretty excited for this weekend. Before he did his tips for last weekend, I explained the situation. "The competition's almost over, and you've done very well. You're in third place. YOu can play it safe and protect that; but if you want to try to win, you'll need to take a risk. What would you like to do?"
Ryan decided to go hard or go home. Only he didn't say that, because he is six years old and unfamiliar with cliches. His daddy knows his cliches, however, and after his first upset pick had paid off and his second upset pick was leading with about 20 minutes to go, I shared one with him: "Don't count your chickens before they're hatched". He quizzed me on its meaning, why it matters, and why anyone would want to count chickens in the first place; and he seemed satisfied.
Ten minutes before full time, when his upset pick had extended its lead, he turned to me with a big grin and said, "Daddy, I'm counting my chickens before they're hatched!" My boy now knows cliches. One day he may use this power for good. This is not that day.