Everybody dies, Tracey. Someone's carrying a bullet for you right now, doesn't even know it. The trick is to die of old age before it finds you.

Mal ,'The Message'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Burrell - Aug 10, 2015 1:18:40 pm PDT #3035 of 30003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Wow, 9th grade. They just keep growing, I tell ya!

I am vaguely dreading school starting next week, just as I was vaguely dreading summer back in May. Summer turned out okay. I do wish I knew the trick to raising motivated children who have focus and interests that they genuinely want to pursue, and who do things like homework without massive crying jags, etc. I have failed my kids in that arena. My kids are so smart and yet they couldn't give half a shit about much of anything beyond instagram in the one case, and the history of video gaming in the other. sigh.


flea - Aug 10, 2015 1:23:31 pm PDT #3036 of 30003
information libertarian

Burrell, those are developmentally appropriate interests. Signed, 11 y o is watching the Chipmunks sing Bad Romance while 9 y o watches Nova Science Now.


Gudanov - Aug 10, 2015 1:35:42 pm PDT #3037 of 30003
Coding and Sleeping

My kids are so smart and yet they couldn't give half a shit about much of anything beyond instagram in the one case, and the history of video gaming in the other. sigh.

That seems really, really normal. I've had the exact same issues with my kids.


-t - Aug 10, 2015 1:45:50 pm PDT #3038 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I do wish I knew the trick to raising motivated children who have focus and interests that they genuinely want to pursue, and who do things like homework without massive crying jags, etc.

Pretty sure,my dad wishes he did, too. Mom always said to herself that Ansel Adams and John Muir looked like they had no idea what they were doing well into their 30s


sarameg - Aug 10, 2015 2:30:41 pm PDT #3039 of 30003

All I asked from tonight's swim was that it faster than yesterday's rather bad one.

I posted times that I haven't seen in about 2 years. Slowest lap was faster than the averages I've been managing lately. IDEK. I'll take it, but random. Hope I can maintain it.


shrift - Aug 10, 2015 2:45:31 pm PDT #3040 of 30003
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I'm lying on the carpet in my empty living room trying to convince myself to get up and go to Target. I will be happier when I have a pillow for sleeping and a coffee maker for the morning.

I'm very much looking forward to tomorrow's furniture delivery because I desperately need a couch to flop on.


-t - Aug 10, 2015 3:00:25 pm PDT #3041 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Yay carpet! Pillows and coffee makers are of the good.


meara - Aug 10, 2015 3:06:09 pm PDT #3042 of 30003

I just had the most complicated/adorable passport applicants. Two one month old girls, not twins, born a day apart to (I think) different gestational surrogates, with Swedish same sex couple dads. And one grandma was there, too.

Aww, that does sound complex and adorable!

I do wish I knew the trick to raising motivated children who have focus and interests that they genuinely want to pursue, and who do things like homework without massive crying jags, etc.

Hahahah, I don't believe it exists. Even moreso than ROUSes. Unless by interests you mean like "obsessed with video games" or "can't put down a book to say hello" or "really really thinks horses are so cool and wants to have a pony but hasn't ever actually met a horse" or something. Those are possible.


sarameg - Aug 10, 2015 3:11:10 pm PDT #3043 of 30003

shrift, gotta say, I'm impressed with the speed in which you pulled this off. I know it was an endless slog for you, but you pulled it off!


-t - Aug 10, 2015 3:11:28 pm PDT #3044 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I'm sorry about your parents' friends, msbelle. That's hard , in one week like that.

The complicated/adorable not!twins sure make a great story!