I've been out of the abbey two days, I've beaten a lawman senseless, I've fallen in with criminals. I watched the captain shoot the man I swore to protect. And I'm not even sure if I think he was wrong.

Book ,'Serenity'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Hil R. - Jun 20, 2016 12:26:26 pm PDT #23403 of 30003
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I like some sports. I like watching baseball. (I also like watching figure skating and gymnastics, and diving, and some other sports, but those don't seem to count as "sports" usually.) When my old upstairs neighbors were watching some sports thing and being really loud about it, I didn't really care which sports thing it was, any more than I cared which video game they were playing when they were being really loud about that.

Speaking of which, those guys moved out a little while ago, and the landlord has been showing the apartment to new people. One of them, the landlord stopped with him on the front porch and told him to look at the view, and he responded, "Oh, we know some very attractive women who live in that house over there, so I know that we will appreciate this view a lot." I really hope they don't move in.


Sheryl - Jun 20, 2016 12:48:39 pm PDT #23404 of 30003
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Got to daycare and was told the little guy has a fever. I know he's been fighting something, with a runny nose and coughing. Fever's a new addtition, and means one of us will have to stay home from work tomorrow, as daycare's policy is for kids to stay home until 24 hours after their temp is back to normal. I'll talk to Gary about this when he gets home, including if the little guy should go to the pediatrician.(He's sounding a bit congested.)


msbelle - Jun 20, 2016 1:01:23 pm PDT #23405 of 30003
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

It is dismissive and said by a lot of people in an elistist snobby way to point out very clearly that they don't watch or care about sports.

It just doesn't bother me because we all tend to be like that about something.


shrift - Jun 20, 2016 1:20:57 pm PDT #23406 of 30003
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Yeah, I'm not in favor of being dismissive of something somebody loves even when it's not my beautiful cake. I try not to do that anymore unless your thing is eating babies or whatever.


shrift - Jun 20, 2016 1:27:41 pm PDT #23407 of 30003
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Also:

"Oh, we know some very attractive women who live in that house over there, so I know that we will appreciate this view a lot."

Gross.


lisah - Jun 20, 2016 2:10:45 pm PDT #23408 of 30003
Punishingly Intricate

Huh. It is just me

No, it can bug the shit out of me, too. Some people definitely use it in that same irritating way "Kill your television" people would. With a sneer, like, "I'm far too weird to like anything a Normal would like."


Connie Neil - Jun 20, 2016 2:33:55 pm PDT #23409 of 30003
brillig

102 degrees, 9% humidity in my town. I think I hear my skin crinkling.


sarameg - Jun 20, 2016 3:00:54 pm PDT #23410 of 30003

My penchant for hanging on to old swimsuits "just in case" finally paid off. One of my favorite instructor/guards had her suit stolen while she was on break and she was pissed about that and how she was gonna have to shell out another $80 because she didn't have time to wait for a sale and how on earth she was going to get to a store between 8 pm tonight and 8 am tomorrow. She looks about my size and a bell went off in my head. Asked, and sure enough, we both wear a 32. Went home and grabbed a couple that were in better shape for her. She said 'if you weren't already my favorite, you would be now.' Hah.


Matt the Bruins fan - Jun 20, 2016 3:03:00 pm PDT #23411 of 30003
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

I've been mocked my whole life for not knowing about sports by sports fans who didn't know the difference between Star Wars and Star Trek just like I don't know the names of all the teams of all the balls. As many times as I've heard the equivalent of "blah blah blah *nerd*" I'm afraid I can't muster up any shame about "blah blah blah *sportsball*". I'm sure I'm not affecting them with my lack of concern.

Zen is me regarding the above. And appreciation of sports is one of the markers of masculinity that have been used derisively against *several* communities I've been a part of most of my life that didn't share it: sci-fi & gaming geeks, artists, and gays. So when people get mocked for showing support for their pro sports team of choice in schools and social situations or have to make do with a sparse trickle of funding while the Arts and sci-fi/comic conventions have nine-digit facilities built for them with public money, maybe I'll be more sensitive about correct sports terminology.


Steph L. - Jun 20, 2016 3:13:19 pm PDT #23412 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I cannot believe how fucking hard it is for Tim to get a goddamn shingles vaccine. He can't start his treatment for his RA until 4 weeks after he gets a shingles vaccine. Only he doesn't turn 50 until November. Fine, he knows that means insurance won't cover the vaccine and he'll have to cough up about $200 to get vaccinated. Whatever.

CVS and Kroger pharmacies won't give the vaccine to anyone under 50, even if they have an order/prescription from a doctor. No exceptions, not even if it's because someone needs the vaccine before they can start the treatment that *might* stop his hands from becoming horribly malformed (and oh, stop the pain that he won't even talk about). It's not like it's illegal to give the vaccine to someone under 50; it's just their corporate policy. (If you're between 50 and 60, they'll give it to you ONLY if you have an order from your physician. Is this the new crazy trend for 20-somethings? Are they joyriding and getting vaccinated for shits and giggles so now there's no shingles vaccine available for old people???)

You'd think his primary care doctor's office could vaccinate him, but they don't have the vaccine. I told him to ask them to FUCKING ORDER IT. It's not like it's a mythical thing that we're asking them to retrieve, like a leprechaun or something. It's an actual thing that exists in the world and HOW does a doctor's office NOT HAVE IT???

(Of course, I *also* think that since his rheumatologist is the one who wants him to get the vaccination, *HE* should get the damn vaccine and administer it. But apparently they don't do that. In which case then they should just let him start the treatment for his RA. But they're insisting he get the vaccine THAT NO ONE WILL GIVE HIM. Our healthcare system is so beyond fucked up that I don't even have words for it.)

I'ma have to start making seriously angry phone calls on his behalf tomorrow, and no one wants that.