You walk in worlds the others can't begin to imagine.

Drusilla ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Jun 16, 2016 5:52:21 am PDT #23191 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I just heaved out a very contented sigh. Thank you, Kato Burr.

His long-suffering sighs are COMEDY GOLD. Poor, poor Kato. No one understands how hard he has it.


Dana - Jun 16, 2016 5:52:47 am PDT #23192 of 30003
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

JavaScript.


Gudanov - Jun 16, 2016 5:55:03 am PDT #23193 of 30003
Coding and Sleeping

JavaScript.

There's a lot you can argue about JavaScript code. That is a messy language.


billytea - Jun 16, 2016 6:04:12 am PDT #23194 of 30003
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

...but I think I've hit the tipping point where I need to just hide all her posts instead.

a) Ugh, I'm sorry you have to deal with that; and

2. Does this mean there's a way to hide someone's posts without unfriending them? Because I could do with that right now.


Dana - Jun 16, 2016 6:11:38 am PDT #23195 of 30003
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Click the gray arrow on the right-hand side of the name. There should be an option to "Unfollow".


Steph L. - Jun 16, 2016 6:20:22 am PDT #23196 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Oh, right -- I used the wrong term, because in my brain it's hiding them. FB calls it unfollowing. That way you're still technically FB friends, but you never have to see the nonsense they post unless you choose to go back and re-follow them. It's made my feed so nice.


meara - Jun 16, 2016 6:23:22 am PDT #23197 of 30003

've been choosing to not reply to the bigoted/ignorant shit other people have been posting on their own FB walls, because they are not commenting on my posts with bigoted shit

Yeah, yesterday I had to hide a dancing friend of mine. He himself is definitely more conservative than I am (although he's a gay man of a certain age!), and will often/sometimes post things I disagree with. But the final straw was not anything he posted, but rather one of his other friends tagging him in a bunch of awful bigoted shit. I just couldn't anymore. I felt bad--he's a good guy (he's the one who helped me when my smoke detectors went crazy, and he came over and replaced them all for me on a Saturday night!) but I couldn't handle seeing all that and the only way was to hide him.

Does this mean there's a way to hide someone's posts without unfriending them? Because I could do with that right now.

Heck yes there is! It's fabulous. I wish there was a way to not-quite hide some people? To only see like, "important" posts (I want to know if you got married or fired or had a baby...but don't want to see every post you write?), but it's better than nothing.


Steph L. - Jun 16, 2016 6:26:29 am PDT #23198 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I wish there was a way to not-quite hide some people? To only see like, "important" posts (I want to know if you got married or fired or had a baby

At least with my aunt, I assume my mom will tell me if anything important happens in her life.


Maria - Jun 16, 2016 6:27:03 am PDT #23199 of 30003
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

It's handy, but part of me wonders if we're not creating an echo chamber with no room for dissenting opinions and thought. How can we think critically when everything we see is basically reinforcing our confirmation bias?

The filibuster was a thing of beauty. I need to catch up on what I missed.

'suela, that's horrific re: Oakland PD. I have heard nothing of it on the east coast.

Tom, I echo what everyone said upthread. Progress is progress, no matter how small. Much love to you.


Connie Neil - Jun 16, 2016 6:28:26 am PDT #23200 of 30003
brillig

I'll unfollow people's sources, not the people--unless said person becomes really annoying.