Well, look at you. All dressed up in big sister's clothes.

Faith ,'End of Days'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Connie Neil - Jun 15, 2016 7:10:44 am PDT #23106 of 30003
brillig

low-income white guys don't feel like they do and that nobody cares. A lot of privilege comes from money/social class.

For a long time, the "privileged class" was the family in the big house on the hill, who owned all the businesses and who sneered at the poor folks. When poor people are told they're privileged, they just don't see it. Privileges are things you earn or which are given to you--and which can be taken away. "In punishment for these infractions, you will lose privileges."

I think we should use the term "advantage." A low-income white man may understand better that his hand of cards is stronger than the one held by the low-income black woman. Unfortunately, we have to be aware that even with a better understanding of the theory, said angry white man may not care.


Sophia Brooks - Jun 15, 2016 7:14:45 am PDT #23107 of 30003
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I think we should use the term "advantage."

That is a good term. I think the privilege term came from the original "unpacking the invisible knapsack" article writer, and she was actually using it with fairly privileged kids. In fact (probably because my college was so white), I was one of the least privileged when we did that.


Maria - Jun 15, 2016 7:18:57 am PDT #23108 of 30003
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

I'm floored. From the Lt. Governor of Utah. Read it; it's worth it. [link]


Sophia Brooks - Jun 15, 2016 7:19:14 am PDT #23109 of 30003
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I was just reading that too!

ETA and crying.


Steph L. - Jun 15, 2016 7:23:09 am PDT #23110 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I'm floored. From the Lt. Governor of Utah. Read it; it's worth it.

Wow. That's astonishing.


Jesse - Jun 15, 2016 7:23:39 am PDT #23111 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oy -- someone in a related department told me she had some free time and asked if she could do anything for me. I gave her a very defined piece of work that is part of a larger thing. So she took it on herself to do the whole larger thing, including reaching out to several other people, without talking to me. Now some feathers are ruffled for no reason and I'm annoyed.


Maria - Jun 15, 2016 7:23:42 am PDT #23112 of 30003
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Me too. Now he has to put those words into actions.


Jesse - Jun 15, 2016 7:27:23 am PDT #23113 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Wow, that was great.


Maria - Jun 15, 2016 7:28:20 am PDT #23114 of 30003
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

So she took it on herself to do the whole larger thing, including reaching out to several other people, without talking to me. Now some feathers are ruffled for no reason and I'm annoyed.

You have every reason to be. If you're feeling generous, it might be a teachable moment. There are times to take initiative, and there are times to do exactly what is asked of you. Learning the difference between the two will save a lot of grief and heartache, and help with promotability. Listen and ask questions if you're not sure you should be doing something.


Maria - Jun 15, 2016 7:33:00 am PDT #23115 of 30003
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

If you're not following Brian Sims on FB, you should be. PA state representative from Center City Philadelphia. Ex-collegiate football player. Gay. And one of the fiercest advocates I've come across. He does not shy away from pissing people off, and he's funny. His speech on the floor of the PA House after the Orlando shooting was incredibly moving: [link]

This is the direct link to his page: [link]