Saffron: You won't tell anyone about me breaking down? Mal: I won't. Saffron: Then I won't tell anyone how easily I got your gun out of your holster. Mal: I'll take that as a kindness.

'Trash'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - May 05, 2016 7:10:40 am PDT #21033 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

So, digging your pet's grave blows. Especially in southern Ohio, because it's mostly clay. And so many roots! And since Tim has RA, I did most of the digging, but I wanted to.

We buried her with one of the bolts of fleece that she laid on on the couch, a tiny piece of plastic bag, because she LOVED to chew and lick plastic bags, and dogwood petals, because they're still blooming.

Oh my kitty. She was my favorite. I loved her so much.


-t - May 05, 2016 7:16:12 am PDT #21034 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Aw, that sounds like a sweet and fitting memorial.

I agree, digging graves is no fun, and digging in clay in general is so hard, and the two combined really suck.


WindSparrow - May 05, 2016 7:17:13 am PDT #21035 of 30003
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I'm so sorry for your loss, Steph. It's just so hard.


Atropa - May 05, 2016 7:20:58 am PDT #21036 of 30003
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Steph and Theo, I'm so sorry.


Zenkitty - May 05, 2016 7:31:41 am PDT #21037 of 30003
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

It's so damn hard to lose them.


Sophia Brooks - May 05, 2016 7:54:09 am PDT #21038 of 30003
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I am so sorry, Steph.


Lee - May 05, 2016 7:59:45 am PDT #21039 of 30003
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I am so sorry Teppy.


Steph L. - May 05, 2016 8:02:47 am PDT #21040 of 30003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

It's just that Slinky is so old (19, at least) and has kidney failure -- I was sure she wouldn't make it through this year (and she might not), and then we'd have Toke around for years. But Toke was about 15, and that is a pretty good long life for a cat (Slinky is the weird outlier who I'm pretty sure is eternal).

It was just such a shock to find her, when she was basically fine. And even Tuesday and yesterday, she wasn't overtly distressed, or else we would have taken her to the vet immediately. I know sometimes these things just happen, but man, it sucks so much.

And now I have an assload of work to do. Woo.


lisah - May 05, 2016 8:04:29 am PDT #21041 of 30003
Punishingly Intricate

I'm so sorry, Teppy and Tim. Toke was a lucky kitty to have you guys for her family.


Connie Neil - May 05, 2016 8:05:24 am PDT #21042 of 30003
brillig

t near-approach-to-personal-space-for-purposes-of-support

In place of a hug