Gud, venting is an okay thing to do. You are allowed to take care of yourself by talking to people who care about you. It concerns me that you have an urge to stop talking about this. Yes, there are things between spouses that are meant to be private and not shared outside the marriage, but no - being called ugly names and criticized is not a sacred trust. No one deserves to be treated that way. You deserve to be treated with respect and care. No matter how excellent a person your wife is in other ways, you still deserve better treatment.
I'm a vision of hotliness, and how weird is that? Mystical comas. You know, if you can stand the horror of a higher power hijacking your mind and body so that it can give birth to itself, I really recommend 'em.
Cordelia ,'You're Welcome'
Natter 74: Ready or Not
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
WindSparrow - Apr 26, 2016 1:16:26 pm PDT #20465 of 30003
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
meara - Apr 26, 2016 2:08:35 pm PDT #20466 of 30003
Oh, artisanal cheese making laser enthusiast! Making it hipster indeed.
Now I wish I'd seen Liese's post but...hugs to all?
dcp - Apr 26, 2016 2:15:30 pm PDT #20467 of 30003
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.
Rough day at work -- many layoffs and much re-shuffling. I'm still employed, but several of my friends are not. Survivor's guilt is awkward.
WindSparrow - Apr 26, 2016 2:16:51 pm PDT #20468 of 30003
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
That is rough, dcp.
Typo Boy - Apr 26, 2016 2:56:28 pm PDT #20469 of 30003
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Something I was thinking but did not say some months ago, Gud, when your wife was giving you hell for paying one bill one day late: isn't she the one who originally had responsibility for paying the bills in your house and managed to NOT pay any bills for six months? And then you had to work overtime for a long time to get your household out of the mess?
P.M. Marc - Apr 26, 2016 2:56:29 pm PDT #20470 of 30003
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Gud, good people can be wrong. Two good people can end up in patterns that are bad for both of them. Bad patterns, bad coping mechanisms: these don't mean she's a bad person or that you're a bad person. It means there are things that need to be addressed for the happiness of you both.
EpicTangent - Apr 26, 2016 2:56:37 pm PDT #20471 of 30003
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty
Survivor's guilt is awkward.
TRUTH.
{{dcp}}
Sheryl - Apr 26, 2016 2:58:03 pm PDT #20472 of 30003
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"
Timelies all!
Ugh, so tired of Passover. Also, I can't wait for Gary to get home. Unfortunately, Passover has 4 more days to go, and Gary won't be home until Thursday.
P.M. Marc - Apr 26, 2016 2:58:56 pm PDT #20473 of 30003
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Survivor's guilt is awkward.
I feel kind of guilty that I was so glad to be in the first wave of layoffs. People who weren't felt so bad. :(
I'm sorry, dcp.
Jesse - Apr 26, 2016 3:27:15 pm PDT #20474 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
Ouch, dcp. Good luck with that.