Mal: Well, look at this! Appears we got here just in the nick of time. What does that make us? Zoe: Big damn heroes, sir.

'Safe'


Natter 74: Ready or Not  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Sheryl - Apr 21, 2016 2:42:16 pm PDT #20168 of 30003
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

2016 keeps going with the too soon celebrity deaths. I saw Purple Rain in the theater when I was in high school.


Liese S. - Apr 21, 2016 2:53:17 pm PDT #20169 of 30003
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Aww.

Y'all, I can tell I'm not doing well because the act of printing up mailing labels sent me into a meltdown. Mailing labels!

But here's the deal. After fifteen years doing this work, the SO & I are getting ready to call it a day for the Traveling Music School. Our sabbatical last year taught us a lot of things, but one of the things that was clear was that we could not keep doing this level of emotional labor for the rest of our lives. So this year we drew it back, restructured, reworked things. But the upshot is, I think we're about done with what we want to and can do. I'm working a summer camp back in Indiana and then we'll finish out the next full school year to keep our promises to our kiddoes. The SO picked up part time work and then was immediately (four months! it's ridiculous!) promoted to department supervisor, in a company that exists all over the country. I entered the inaugural songwriting online degree program at Berklee School of Music and hope to complete my bachelors in the next year.

At that point, we'll be moving in an easterly direction. Nashville? Memphis? Memphis is, to the minute, exactly between Dave's mom's place and my mom's place, about six and a half hours each way. The SO's job will likely allow us to make a relatively smooth transition, and I'll be continuing with my songwriting career goals, with the intent of piecing together a music industry career long-term. Gotta give it the ol' college try sometime, eh? Either way, my earning potential will be bettered by completing my degree, and there are more jobs pretty much anywhere than where we are now.

So we're in a big ol' pile of transition, and toward that end, I am writing the letters to our supporters over the years and...mailing labels with all the people who have known and loved us and our kiddoes all this time...and people who aren't on those mailing labels because they're not with us anymore...and Prince died...and my dad...and hello, meltdown!

Our news isn't quite public yet, so please don't mention it on social media until you see us put it there first, but I figured it was time to let all y'all know, since you've been with me this whole walk.


Lee - Apr 21, 2016 3:08:16 pm PDT #20170 of 30003
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I have been buried all day at work, which for once was a good thing, because I got to be unsad for a few extra hours.

I hope Lee is going to get her VW bought back.

Fuck yeah!


Connie Neil - Apr 21, 2016 3:10:56 pm PDT #20171 of 30003
brillig

Oh, you're leaving the desert, Liese. I feel like I'm losing a high-heat/low-humidity comrade.


Amy - Apr 21, 2016 3:12:43 pm PDT #20172 of 30003
Because books.

I am so incredibly sad. What Teppy said about Prince and Bowie is true for me, too. I just ... he was the immortal one for me. And a true genius. Weirdly, not weirdly, who knows, it was the purple Google logo that made me cry.

Liese, that's a big change but it sounds really positive! Yay!


msbelle - Apr 21, 2016 3:14:10 pm PDT #20173 of 30003
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

love and support Liese. That is a lot of change, but good for you all to recognize what you need and can do.


Jesse - Apr 21, 2016 3:19:02 pm PDT #20174 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh wow, Liese. That will be a huge transition. What Rebecca said.


meara - Apr 21, 2016 3:26:13 pm PDT #20175 of 30003

Wow, Liese! Exciting and hard and interesting!!


Tom Scola - Apr 21, 2016 3:32:59 pm PDT #20176 of 30003
hwæt

Liese, I saw this yesterday, and it made me think of you.


amyth - Apr 21, 2016 3:44:20 pm PDT #20177 of 30003
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

{Liese} lots of love to you and the SO through all of your transitions.