You can always break down a little, Kat. I'm sure having you around in any capacity when things suck and when they are beautiful will help your friend.
Hugs all around.
Note to self: religion freaky.
Buffy ,'Never Leave Me'
Natter 74: Ready or Not
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
-t - Apr 19, 2016 5:38:46 pm PDT #20017 of 30003
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Gudanov - Apr 19, 2016 5:40:26 pm PDT #20018 of 30003
Coding and Sleeping
Burrell - Apr 19, 2016 5:40:47 pm PDT #20019 of 30003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Oh Kat, I hear you. It feels like not enough, but hugs and empathy and just being there for him is a lot.
I want to tell him that it will suck, it will suck so hard, and it will be beautiful sometimes and you will survive it all, even when it feels like you can't.
Maybe eventually you can tell him all of that. It can be hard to see the road ahead of someone else.
sarameg - Apr 19, 2016 5:47:03 pm PDT #20020 of 30003
I had to google. Oof. All you can do is be an active listener, waiting for cues. It's given me things to do, though mostly just more listening.
Kat - Apr 19, 2016 6:03:10 pm PDT #20021 of 30003
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo
It can be hard to see the road ahead of someone else.
Yes. This. I mean, what I've come to is that things are hard but I look at other kids with SN and think, NO WAY. I'm glad I have the kid with a trache instead of a kid with autism.
sarameg - Apr 19, 2016 6:04:03 pm PDT #20022 of 30003
Also, I'm tired of the snot I'm generating. It's just mostly irritation from particulates andf fuck youautocorrect, it did that, I'm going to bed.
I'm pretty hateful right now.
Matt the Bruins fan - Apr 20, 2016 4:30:57 am PDT #20023 of 30003
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand
The North Carolina Music Festival : [link]
Dana - Apr 20, 2016 4:59:41 am PDT #20024 of 30003
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."
When I join a 9AM meeting at 8:58, why am I the only one here? Augh.
Zenkitty - Apr 20, 2016 5:08:34 am PDT #20025 of 30003
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Oh hai. 10am meeting, we're getting peoples' VM.
Jesse - Apr 20, 2016 5:18:25 am PDT #20026 of 30003
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
My boss's now-former EA (who got a different job here and is my new office-mate) is giving the new EA some training, and it is very helpful to me as well! So that's nice.
I am CRABBY about my job because of reasons, but maybe the new Big Boss will help.