I never have the money or the energy to do what is needed at my house. I have 4 years to get everything fixed so I can sell it.
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I never have the money or the energy to do what is needed at my house.
It's the same here at House o' Reason.
Don't get me wrong -- I love *having* a yard. I love going out and picking the flowers and the fruit, and I would love to have herbs. But I admit that I need someone else to do the work.
(It's not helped by the fact that I am even more sensitive to heat and sunlight these days, thanks to some of my meds. Eventually I'll get the cool parts of vampirism, not just the problems with sun and garlic.)
As an Angeleno who owns her own home, I get how lucky that makes me. Like most folks I know who grew up here, I couldn't afford to buy if I didn't inherit. I think that's a crazy way to do real estate.
Oh, it costs money, even (maybe more) the DIY. And really, maintaining me, my cats, my house, my job are my only responsibilities. Truly, take care in the order cats, house, me, job, car. Unless something's leaking fluids.
Also, like Liese, I really enjoy "my" birds at the feeder and in the water fountain, and "my" bees, and how much the dogs and the cat all enjoy the landscape.
Visitors also enjoy the landscape! I'd love to have a garden like yours someday (East Coast version, anyway).
I just tried to like and favorite a bunch of your posts - but at least I didn't try inserting an emoji!
I like owning my house, a lot, but lately I feel like I am not taking care of it well enough. Most of the work I do is in the garden, but I need to do more.
I love owning my own home, and find it emotionally necessary; I don't feel entirely stable or safe if my home doesn't belong to me. I love having the yard that's mine and watching the wildlife visitors come through, and I do enjoy taking care of the yard, but I often just don't know what to do or how, and also I hate the heat, so... yeah.
Owning a house is super important to me as well, especially after the last 4ish years. I like having "my" place. Going from new construction to a 116-year old house was a little eye opening, but I love my weird, quirky, exasperating home. I pay someone to cut my grass, and I need to find a landscaper to take care of the back garden. I have a black thumb. Repair and replacement projects this year include fuel oil tank, the fence, and repaving my parking area. Everything else should be covered by my homeowners warranty, not that I'm anticipating anything else right now.
We are hoping to buy a house in the next few years. I definitely miss being a homeowner, despite all the costs that come along with it. And I really miss the gardening and the feeling of "my" space. Despite have the best landlady in the world and having rented our house for almost ten years, it's not really ours, and I never forget it.