I'm very sorry if she tipped off anyone about your cunningly concealed herd of cows.

Simon ,'Safe'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


bon bon - Jan 19, 2015 4:57:47 pm PST #964 of 3157
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

I think it was great so many people signed in to the hangout-- thanks Shir for spearheading that. (Apologies for any spottiness of the connection with chez bon Bob.)


beekaytee - Jan 19, 2015 5:11:47 pm PST #965 of 3157
Compassionately intolerant

Bob Bob was an absolute riot. Such a charming host.


Pix - Jan 19, 2015 5:16:49 pm PST #966 of 3157
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

I'm sorry I didn't sit down and chat with everyone more. I'm so glad you were there.


quester - Jan 19, 2015 5:31:37 pm PST #967 of 3157
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Sorry I missed it.


Glamcookie - Jan 19, 2015 6:06:11 pm PST #968 of 3157
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

So nice to see everyone. Sorry I couldn't chat more with those present (physically and virtually). Chasing the almost two year old around. Had silly fun with Burrell's funny kids. Thank you for hosting, bon bon!


Burrell - Jan 19, 2015 7:44:54 pm PST #969 of 3157
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Yes thank you bon bon, it was a very welcome chance to catch up and relax and reminisce. And all the wee ones were so cute! Both Ford and N (not sure if you've used his name here, but I know GC has). I miss the younger stages.


Shir - Jan 19, 2015 8:19:59 pm PST #970 of 3157
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

It was so, so good to see everyone, and thank you bon bob for hosting the physical meeting.

I'm sorry I had to leave so soon, but it was getting really late here. I was kindda half asleep when it started.

It's not the place to discuss this, but I am happy to organize video chats on a monthly basis. Stompies, please let me know where to take it to.


shrift - Jan 19, 2015 8:32:05 pm PST #971 of 3157
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I'm sorry that I missed today's chat. I'd be up for joining others. Thanks for organizing, Shir.

Today I rolled my ankle on broken sidewalk and skinned my knee. My ankle seems to be fine, although my knee will have some entertaining road rash for a few days. The injury mostly was to my dignity. While I was walking it off, I realized that I would have taken a picture of it so ita could look at it.


Julie - Jan 20, 2015 8:05:28 am PST #972 of 3157

x-post with the UnAmerican thread

So. I heard about ita and had to swing by to see how the islanders were holding up. Or falling apart.

And the thing that made me lose it, just a little, was the fact that the UnAmerican Board is still here. And despite the fact that we settled on, not just the 2nd, but also the 3rd thread title, over a decade ago, it's only now limping its way to the magic 10k.

I also just lost a lot of hours revisiting those long, long ago UnAms. And their friends, the USians.

To quote a 12 years younger me

I heart this thread..

Everything from Buffy to Shakespeare via Jondalar and chinois and aging necrophilic dwarves and inisipip posh twits and chocolate bikkies, then back again.

The Buffistas World's contracted thus.

We taught ita about Tim tams in this thread. That alone made it worth the price of admission.

I'm not sure how one loss can reflect so clearly the many little losses of a dozen years. And yet, it does. Vividly.

Vale ita. And much love to Allyson, Kristen, Paula and the LAistas.


Strix - Jan 20, 2015 8:30:07 am PST #973 of 3157
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

With my FIL's passing Wed. night, I haven't been able to fully mourn ita. It's been so much.

But in the Target parking lot last night, I drove past a woman walking to her car. She was a light-skinned Black woman with close-cropped bleached hair, built like ita, with strong shoulders, a confident stride and a leather jacket. The resemblance was UNCANNY.

My heart about stopped and I burst into tears in the fucking Target parking lot.

I've missed you guys this last few days.