Remember that sex we were planning to have, ever again?

Zoe ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Allyson - Jan 17, 2015 8:57:59 am PST #805 of 3156
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Thanks, Ginger. I should have asked you to begin with.


Hil R. - Jan 17, 2015 9:08:29 am PST #806 of 3156
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I think that flickr account is open to everyone. I'm currently logged into flickr on an account that I know she didn't add as a contact (since it's one that my family just uses for family photos), and I can see all the photos there.


Burrell - Jan 17, 2015 9:14:11 am PST #807 of 3156
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

bon bon, thank you for hosting. I will be there, most likely all of us will be there but I should be able to come for sure. Let me know if there's anything I can bring.

I can help with writing things too, I have some time.


Pix - Jan 17, 2015 9:16:26 am PST #808 of 3156
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Let me know what you'd like me to bring, Bon.


Zenkitty - Jan 17, 2015 9:33:23 am PST #809 of 3156
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I don't think you're crazy, Steph, FWIW.


-t - Jan 17, 2015 10:02:57 am PST #810 of 3156
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Steph, I am your inverse in a way. I use a sleep tracker app and it asks for my mood when I wake up. I almost always choose the neutral option because I am just, you know, awake and not feeling anything in particular but Tuesday I was feeling good and chose accordingly. Before actually getting up, of course, I checked the board. Naturally I have drawn the conclusion that I should never click on the smiley face again.


Volans - Jan 17, 2015 11:06:49 am PST #811 of 3156
move out and draw fire

I've had 3 experiences like the one you had in my own life.

Me too, and I woke up exhausted on Sunday morning from these crazy dreams - I told my husband about some of them, including one "all the Buffistas were at a swimming pool, sitting around the edge, but someone was in th pool and sinking super-deep, like ocean-deep and I was trying to dive in and rescue her and caught a glimpse of close-cropped ochre hair. I thought "Oh, it's ita, of course she can swim, she's probably OK."

Then I spent Sunday wondering what my brain was using ita and Buffistas as a metaphor for.


beekaytee - Jan 17, 2015 12:12:12 pm PST #812 of 3156
Compassionately intolerant

Then I spent Sunday wondering what my brain was using ita and Buffistas as a metaphor for.

A very, very interesting question.


Pix - Jan 17, 2015 12:12:27 pm PST #813 of 3156
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

I had a kind of odd worlds colliding moment yesterday. One of my friends at work came up to me and said she was sorry to hear about the loss of my friend (from FB) and then said, "I think I knew her--did she used to do krav?" Turns out she took classes with her for awhile years ago. Such a small world.


Zenkitty - Jan 17, 2015 12:21:29 pm PST #814 of 3156
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Then I spent Sunday wondering what my brain was using ita and Buffistas as a metaphor for.

That's so clear it's barely a metaphor anymore. That's as close to a telegram as the subconscious can usually manage. Raq, if you have any dreams like that about the rest of us, do give us a holler, will you?