A ghost? What's the deal? Is every frat on this campus haunted? And if so, why do people keep coming to these parties, cause it's not the snacks.

Xander ,'Dirty Girls'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Liese S. - Jan 16, 2015 6:43:03 pm PST #787 of 3156
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

That's really lovely, Ouise. I like the thought of you singing that for ita.

Yikes, Callaluna, how scary.


Allyson - Jan 16, 2015 6:47:16 pm PST #788 of 3156
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

I will be there, Bon bon. Please let me know what I can bring.


Kat - Jan 16, 2015 6:55:10 pm PST #789 of 3156
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

bon bon, we'll be there.


sarameg - Jan 16, 2015 7:02:17 pm PST #790 of 3156

Part of my brain really wants ita's parents & sister to be forced to play in the backyard with Noah and Grace. By N&G(because that's how it works, take my word for it.) Because it is so joyful, if tiring. And the giggles are good for you.


Kat - Jan 16, 2015 7:13:00 pm PST #791 of 3156
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Making anyone play with my kids is not fair. I always feel guilty.

I just stumbled on this one:

ita: I'm so glad I'm me, since otherwise I might have to be around me, and I suspect that might not be as much fun.

But she was wrong....she really was as much fun.


sarameg - Jan 16, 2015 7:22:24 pm PST #792 of 3156

Just place them in the same room, they'll take care of the rest. And really, unless you aren't a kid person, it's a joy. They're so awesome selves.

Also, ita was so much fun and engagement.


Kat - Jan 16, 2015 7:25:05 pm PST #793 of 3156
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

The last time I saw ita, I had the twins with me. I felt terrible inflicting them on her because of the rambunctiousness.


Frankenbuddha - Jan 16, 2015 7:32:45 pm PST #794 of 3156
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"

smonster - Jan 16, 2015 7:40:42 pm PST #795 of 3156
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I did a search for pink gingham dresses, just because, and found this one - [link] I don't know if ita would have loved it, but I can certainly picture her in it.


meara - Jan 16, 2015 8:53:35 pm PST #796 of 3156

I was all excited for a second, Bon bon, and then realized I'll be in LA next Monday, not this one. Oh well.