But I understand. You gave up everything you had to find me. And you found me broken. It's hard for you.

River ,'Safe'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Morgana - Jan 16, 2015 4:01:58 am PST #686 of 3156
"I make mistakes, but I am on the side of Good," the Golux said, "by accident and happenchance.” – The 13 Clocks, James Thurber

I’ve been hesitating to post anything because I didn’t really know ita as well as the rest of you. I’ve been a Buffista since the TT days, but I do more lurking than posting; mostly I’ve interacted with ita on the SPN thread. But I can say with complete sincerity that I am feeling a tremendous sense of loss…. the Buffistas board is the first site I check when I turn on my laptop everyday, and her voice has always been a constant presence everywhere throughout the site. And now it’s fallen silent. My mother saw me crying and wanted to know why, and I told her “one of the invisible people* is gone, and the entire community is mourning.”

(*Because “invisible people” makes me sound slightly less insane than “imaginary people.”)


Theresa W.. - Jan 16, 2015 4:25:10 am PST #687 of 3156

Those of us who met her in person...how lucky are we?

Those of us who never did but know her anyway...also so lucky. Because think of the odds of never knowing anybody like her at all.

Also, it's crazy to see you all.... I feel 22 again. In a good way.


smonster - Jan 16, 2015 5:22:56 am PST #688 of 3156
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

bonny, I had the same thought.

Hi, Sophie Max and Morgana. Awfulsome* to see your pixels.

*"Awfulsome" is a word Paul Gilmartin uses to describe moments that are horrible at the time, but funny later. I'm shifting the meaning a bit, but looking for a word other than "bittersweet" to describe seeing everyone back here.


Kat - Jan 16, 2015 6:31:45 am PST #689 of 3156
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

This has has been a pretty spectacular weepy week. I'm not much of a weep-er and yet, it catches me at the most weird (mostly unguarded moments). Anyhow, this morning I had a barking laughing moment instead which was a nice break. I was thinking about how outraged ita would get when we continually poke at her allegedly making out with Carrot Top. She was always insistent that she didn't make out with him.

Just the thought of her faux outrage made me laugh.


P.M. Marc - Jan 16, 2015 6:34:14 am PST #690 of 3156
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

She just saw hom naked.


P.M. Marc - Jan 16, 2015 6:34:42 am PST #691 of 3156
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Him. Damn mobile. Don't even trust it to edit.


Trudy Booth - Jan 16, 2015 6:36:53 am PST #692 of 3156
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Naked Carrot Top pre or post buffed?

And, because its expected of me... DID she see the Carrot Bottom? Was he a natural carrot or bottled carrot?


msbelle - Jan 16, 2015 6:42:06 am PST #693 of 3156
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Oh yeah, she was insistent she only saw him naked. Now bon bon may have done more.

She had such great stories from the Montreal Comedy Festival.


P.M. Marc - Jan 16, 2015 6:42:44 am PST #694 of 3156
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I would hate to see Carrot bottom, but I expect it would be less alarming than seeing him top.

...and that's totally not what you meant, is it?


Callaluna - Jan 16, 2015 6:51:21 am PST #695 of 3156

I would hate to see Carrot bottom, but I expect it would be less alarming than seeing him top.

...and that's totally not what you meant, is it?

Bwah haha!