Zoe: Preacher, don't the Bible have some pretty specific things to say about killing? Book: Quite specific. It is, however, somewhat fuzzier on the subject of kneecaps.

'War Stories'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Sue - Jan 14, 2015 12:54:44 pm PST #403 of 3153
hip deep in pie

So chuffed about the J. August post.


katefate - Jan 14, 2015 12:59:33 pm PST #404 of 3153
Frail my heart apart and play me a little Shady Grove

Where are my words? There's so much sadness and hurt and hilarious, stunning, wonderful memories in this thread. So much love. Even though I've been gone for so long, I read each name after the next and memories of you all come back. Buffistas saved my life too; I know you all understand. Each of you are all part of the Buffistas mosaic in my mind - it's quite beautiful - and ita's a nice pink gingham glowing in the middle.

Nilly, thanks for the email letting me know.

Wish I could hug you all for real.


-t - Jan 14, 2015 1:00:44 pm PST #405 of 3153
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

We were just talking about how JAR is "one of ours", weren't we? He really sealed that deal.


Steph L. - Jan 14, 2015 1:26:24 pm PST #406 of 3153
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Oh, katefate! So happy to see your pixels!


Miracleman - Jan 14, 2015 1:31:27 pm PST #407 of 3153
No, I don't think I will - me, quoting Captain Steve Rogers, to all of 2020

What JAR tribute? I can't find it!


askye - Jan 14, 2015 1:32:32 pm PST #408 of 3153
Thrive to spite them

So because of ita's influence I started taking kickboxing classes. I had been interested and I read that Allyson was taking them and other Buffistas but I really wanted to be able to do Krav because of ita's love for it.

I had to stop because of health issues and I never started back when my health stuff got better. Now I can't find kickboxing classes around here and I'm terribly out of shape.

I loved doing it though. I loved kicking and punching and when an instructor would come by and correct my form. I liked kicking the pads and bracing myself when someone was kicking me when I was holding the pads.

I got to find a way to do it again.


Lyra Jane - Jan 14, 2015 1:33:08 pm PST #409 of 3153
Up with the sun

This is going to sound terribly stupid, but was ita at the dc F2F? I know I didn't talk to her much even if she was, but somehow it feels important to know whether we were ever in the same room.

((((buffistas))))


javachik - Jan 14, 2015 1:35:06 pm PST #410 of 3153
Our wings are not tired.

MM, upthread, Monique linked.


joe boucher - Jan 14, 2015 1:41:17 pm PST #411 of 3153
I knew that topless lady had something up her sleeve. - John Prine

Such sad, unexpected news. The outpouring of love and grief is not unexpected, but it is great testament to her life. RIP, ita. Condolences to her family, her Buffista family definitely included.


Theresa W.. - Jan 14, 2015 2:06:20 pm PST #412 of 3153

Once upon a time, my life was in transition, and this was the only community I had.

It was enough. It was awesome.

In this community, ita was the heart, the mind, and the strong right arm.

She was enough. She was awesome.

My life is different now. I drive past ita's old Birmingham apartment after dropping my kids off at school, on my way to my own school, where I teach theatre. Like I always wanted. Like she told me I could. And as I drive by, I think "I wish ita was still here."

I wish ita was still here.