Willow: You know what they say. The bigger they are... Anya: The faster they stomp you into nothin'.

'The Killer In Me'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Lee - Jan 12, 2016 5:43:14 pm PST #2348 of 3157
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

My pleasure! Going through all of the remembrances was nice to do.


Lee - Jan 12, 2016 6:28:03 pm PST #2349 of 3157
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Calling the artistic people among us (which is so not me):

This is from ita's sister:

I'm thinking of organising the text-only stuff so that I put the quotes together and making them into a photo somehow so they can also go on flickr. (You can tell I have no idea what I'm talking about - this is the kind of thing I would've asked ita to do for me!)

If I send the document I created with all of the text posts and poems in it, would someone be able to do this?


Typo Boy - Jan 12, 2016 9:09:35 pm PST #2350 of 3157
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

A belated thanks Lee. And while I could it do it, I have lousy artistic skills. So it would end up looking awful.


billytea - Jan 12, 2016 9:22:35 pm PST #2351 of 3157
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Over the last few days, I've been going through COMM and collecting all of ita's contributions. I've put them all in a Word document. It includes her solo quotes, COMM's conversations where she took part, and comments by other buffistas that mentioned ita. (There are some exclusions, such as some of the lengthy pun exchanges, if ita only had one or two appearances; or if she gets mentioned but without really saying anything about her. Basically, if I felt it helped in remembering the person she was, in it goes.) There's about 700 quotes in all.

Some of her quotes are hilarious, some poignant, some are now a bit hard to take. I never met ita in person, and COMMs and COMMworthies are in large part how I best remember her. I don't know if anyone else is interested in this, but I'd be happy to share this file with other Buffistas, and wanted to make the offer. (Not sure what's the best way to do so, if there's somewhere to put it so people can download it, or just get people to email me and I'll send it.)

If anyone would like a copy, my email addy is good.


Lee - Jan 12, 2016 9:28:47 pm PST #2352 of 3157
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Can you send it to me, billytea, both for me, and for her sister?


billytea - Jan 12, 2016 9:40:53 pm PST #2353 of 3157
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Can you send it to me, billytea, both for me, and for her sister?

Absolutely. It's on its way.


Typo Boy - Jan 12, 2016 10:07:06 pm PST #2354 of 3157
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Just to let you know what I meant - It is fairly easy to plug text into an Open office draw file, and then save the results in a Jpeg or series of Jpegs. (or Gif or bmp or whatever graphic format is preferred). But getting it to look good is another matter. I would probably paste each seperate bit of text into either a text box or pull quote. But choosing fonts, backgrounds and layout schemes that look good and honor ita would be another matter.


Steph L. - Jan 13, 2016 6:30:00 am PST #2355 of 3157
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

You guys, sometimes I just think ita hasn't posted in a long time. That she took a break from the board but will be back. Because part of my brain still can't accept that she's gone.


Burrell - Jan 13, 2016 6:30:54 am PST #2356 of 3157
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Could I have a copy too, bt? And thank you for creating it.


sumi - Jan 13, 2016 9:25:49 am PST #2357 of 3157
Art Crawl!!!

Saw this review of a Michelle Grabner exhibit and was reminded.