A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


SuziQ - Jan 13, 2015 8:42:55 am PST #2 of 3147
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Thanks, Plei.


Laura - Jan 13, 2015 8:43:48 am PST #3 of 3147
Our wings are not tired.

It is going to be next to impossible to either fathom that ita is not here, or to express the number of ways she has impacted our lives.

RIP, ita.


Ginger - Jan 13, 2015 8:44:21 am PST #4 of 3147
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

A quote from another valiant soul seems appropriate.

There are stars whose radiance is visible on Earth though they have long been extinct. There are people whose brilliance continues to light the world though they are no longer among the living. These lights are particularly bright when the night is dark. They light the way for humankind. - Hannah Senesh

(Poet Hannah Senesh parachuted behind Germany lines to help coordinate resistance efforts and was executed by the Nazis.)


sj - Jan 13, 2015 8:44:31 am PST #5 of 3147
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thank you, Plei.


juliana - Jan 13, 2015 8:46:18 am PST #6 of 3147
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Thank you, Plei.

Anything I can think of seems so... useless... but I was wondering about a donation or fund in ita's name. For artists, kravvers, I don't know. Thoughts?


P.M. Marc - Jan 13, 2015 8:46:36 am PST #7 of 3147
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Thanks to looking at CFerg's twitter pic, I feel like we should give her a glass case in our Batcave with a pink gingham sundress in it.

Christ, I can't believe she's not here.


P.M. Marc - Jan 13, 2015 8:46:57 am PST #8 of 3147
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Migraine research? Medical advocates?


msbelle - Jan 13, 2015 8:47:50 am PST #9 of 3147
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I can tell you right now that everyone is getting goats through Heifer this year. Fucking goats for everyone.


amyth - Jan 13, 2015 8:48:07 am PST #10 of 3147
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Thank you, Plei.


Steph L. - Jan 13, 2015 8:48:55 am PST #11 of 3147
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I feel like we should give her a glass case in our Batcave with a pink gingham sundress in it.

Yes.