If the apocalypse comes, beep me.

Buffy ,'Selfless'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Burrell - Feb 07, 2015 9:05:19 am PST #1482 of 3157
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I have failed to send things out as well. A couple of you folks, including Lee, are waiting on me. Will try to accomplish post office by Monday.


Atropa - Feb 07, 2015 10:10:33 am PST #1483 of 3157
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Lee, thank you for the package. It made me cry, which I was expecting. The ankh is now on my altar, and the Death plushie is hanging out with the dolls in the bedroom.


Allyson - Feb 07, 2015 10:12:44 am PST #1484 of 3157
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

There are things I need to do, like send thank you notes to the folks who contributed to the fund, a project I want to do with the Pink Gingham Dress, and finish shipping things.

No spoons. It's impossible to determine what ita would have wanted. I think about her every day, and get angry that the world is still spinning without her. I can't stand it.

I've been wearing her garnet ring, imagining it has some sort of superhero power to make me stronger. It's silly, magical thinking, but it helps.


Consuela - Feb 07, 2015 10:36:46 am PST #1485 of 3157
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Allyson, you have the shiniest hair.


Pix - Feb 07, 2015 10:43:51 am PST #1486 of 3157
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

No one expects thank you notes, truly. Take that off your list.


-t - Feb 07, 2015 10:46:54 am PST #1487 of 3157
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's what magical thinking is for, Allyson.

There's no time limit on getting any of that done.


Atropa - Feb 07, 2015 10:50:44 am PST #1488 of 3157
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

No one expects thank you notes, truly. Take that off your list.

Pix is right. No one expects thank you notes, no one who you would send a thank you note to would want to add to your stress by having you write thank you notes.

And magical thinking helps.


beekaytee - Feb 07, 2015 11:04:31 am PST #1489 of 3157
Compassionately intolerant

That's what magical thinking is for

This I love.


sj - Feb 07, 2015 11:04:55 am PST #1490 of 3157
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Allyson, your hair is very shiny, and I completely agree with Pix and Jilli.


Una - Feb 07, 2015 12:06:17 pm PST #1491 of 3157
when i die, please bake my ashes into a brick and use me to hit fascists.

Now I know why it's sunny here today: light glinting off Allyson's amazing hair.