Yeah, I could do that, but I'm paralyzed with not caring very much.

Spike ,'Showtime'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Katerina Bee - Jan 23, 2015 2:03:51 pm PST #1177 of 3157
Herding cats for fun

We had so many conversations about Octavia Butler, and she was the only person I'd met that really dug the hell out of her.

Oh dear. I'd been thinking ita has reminded me of OEB: a brilliant and fierce black woman with head trauma passing far too soon, leaving me bereft of so many words I wanted to read... Of course she'd read those books.

Wish I could bring boxes and help pack. I am sure everyone will so appreciate getting mementos from her estate.


sj - Jan 23, 2015 2:07:53 pm PST #1178 of 3157
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I love the idea of some of ita's more valuable items going toward the charity.


javachik - Jan 23, 2015 2:08:15 pm PST #1179 of 3157
Our wings are not tired.

I keep going over to where WtVPPLtL sits on my shelf, and opening it up to random pages, ita hunting. Sometimes I cry, but mostly I am so grateful that Allyson took the time to document the growth of this place, and its builders.


Lee - Jan 23, 2015 2:13:02 pm PST #1180 of 3157
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Um, so my boss just sent me this [link]

(she had asked ita's name earlier)


javachik - Jan 23, 2015 2:15:48 pm PST #1181 of 3157
Our wings are not tired.

WOW!


Lee - Jan 23, 2015 2:17:18 pm PST #1182 of 3157
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I was this close to making it through the week without crying at work too.


msbelle - Jan 23, 2015 2:19:13 pm PST #1183 of 3157
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

yeah.


erikaj - Jan 23, 2015 2:32:34 pm PST #1184 of 3157
Always Anti-fascist!

I only hope, when it's my turn(Hopefully far from now--this isn't foreshadowing, people) I have a quarter of the reach that she did.


Beverly - Jan 23, 2015 2:33:27 pm PST #1185 of 3157
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Oh. That's. Yeah. Thank you for linking it.


JZ - Jan 23, 2015 2:36:14 pm PST #1186 of 3157
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

That is beautiful, and stunning. And... gah. It's not just us, and not just her family. Everyone who knew her wants to make everyone who didn't know about it and wish they had; we all just want to grab everyone and say, "Look. Look. Here she was. Her she is. How unlikely is she? But she is."

The combined prettiness of the hair of everyone in ita's apartment shimmers with the light of a thousand burning suns.