Mal: And I never back down from a fight. Inara: Yes, you do! You do all the time!

'Shindig'


ita's thread

A place where we can talk about ita, miss ita, and share information about memorials. The hugging started over here in Natter.


Beverly - Jan 23, 2015 12:40:47 pm PST #1165 of 3157
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

"Nothing's forgotten. Nothing is ever forgotten." One of the first evenings I posted rather than lurking, and it was because ita and someone else were talking about former fandoms. Robin of Sherwood was mentioned, and I took the opportunity. ita shushed everybody else for a minute so she could think about the quote I posted.

Thank you, Toddson, for reminding me.

I would love a tiny keepsake--rock, as someone said, or a sketch.

In that vein, I do love that Io9's Odeck has locked her column in memoriam. I know that LJs used to go on pretty indefinitely, but I think the limit now is inactive two years and LJ deletes. I think Tumblrs just sail on forever, but I don't know about Deviant Art. I'm hoping somebody has passwords or admin for LJ and Deviant Art. It would be wonderful to lock those accounts as memorials, so that people who discover her art, either in a fic rec, or just stumbling across it, would be able to know why she stopped posting, and her work would still be accessible.

I provided H with two names and email addresses some time ago. Those two people between them have passwords for my accounts here, at DW, both LJs, and Ao3. Maybe ita did the same?


Glamcookie - Jan 23, 2015 12:55:25 pm PST #1166 of 3157
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

So glad to hear the packing up is easier than expected.


Dana - Jan 23, 2015 12:56:00 pm PST #1167 of 3157
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Can't you get an LJ put in memorial status?


amyth - Jan 23, 2015 1:03:59 pm PST #1168 of 3157
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Yeah, I'm not sure how it's done, but that was done for thamiris [link]


EpicTangent - Jan 23, 2015 1:28:53 pm PST #1169 of 3157
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Glad the packing isn't as wrenching as feared.


Beverly - Jan 23, 2015 1:39:39 pm PST #1170 of 3157
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

And I think for sherrold, as well. That was what I was hoping for.

I'm glad the apartment clearing isn't as difficult as had been expected.


Allyson - Jan 23, 2015 1:41:38 pm PST #1171 of 3157
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

I found an ankh for you, Jilli.


javachik - Jan 23, 2015 1:42:53 pm PST #1172 of 3157
Our wings are not tired.

Just tried to like Allyson's post.


javachik - Jan 23, 2015 1:45:11 pm PST #1173 of 3157
Our wings are not tired.

New tag, for ita.


Aims - Jan 23, 2015 1:57:36 pm PST #1174 of 3157
Shit's all sorts of different now.

hope someone will make good use of her beautiful clothes. That's another weird thought I keep having.

Yeah. Me, too. Also about her and I searching for the perfect lace-up boots for what seemed like HOURS. I still have a couple of pairs of shoes she gave me.