Don't kill anyone if you don't have to. We're here to make a deal.

Mal ,'Serenity'


Natter 73: Chuck Norris only wishes he could Natter  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Sep 18, 2014 8:39:05 am PDT #6443 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

That sounds good, Theo!

Connie, if you can, swinging by a salon to make that first appointment should let you know if you're interested in them. (Learn from my mistakes! I have ended up getting my haircut in a couple of places that were 100% not for me on sight, and neither was the experience!)


-t - Sep 18, 2014 8:44:12 am PDT #6444 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Yay!

Good luck, Connie. It will probably be fine. I'd encourage you to try a few places before deciding on one. I'm amazed how much happier I am to have a salon and stylist I really like as opposed to one that is, you know, okay.


shrift - Sep 18, 2014 8:45:20 am PDT #6445 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Jesse makes some excellent points.


Jesse - Sep 18, 2014 8:50:34 am PDT #6446 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I still miss my NYC stylist.


amych - Sep 18, 2014 8:59:53 am PDT #6447 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

The interviewer is convinced that I can program

This is really the only important thing in coding interviews -- if they see that you can break down a problem and come up with a sane way of solving it, and that you're familiar with how the language you're using should fit into that solution, that's a win. Forgetting some specific function name, or needing to look something up, or whatever detail thing, is way less important.

Good luck on the next step!


Strix - Sep 18, 2014 9:29:51 am PDT #6448 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

On Micah's phone call last night, he was all, "E, you know who my new man-crush is? NATHAN FILLION! He's so cool!"

And my heart grew 3 sizes that day. (He got the term "man-crush" from D and I, I think. So far he skews hetero to me, (he's 12) although I don't give a rat's ass whatever his sexual orientation is. MAN-CRUSH AWAY, BELOVED CHILD!)

Anger: I have 3 modes: fairly innocuous, ranty, humorous pissy screeds about fairly unimportant things. That's the most common. No one gets hurt.

Cold anger: Much less common, and much more dangerous. I get quiet and focused and plan, and I usually keep it in, because I tend to use words to eviscerate a person in their weak spots. And the worst part is when I get that angry, and I DO let it out...I enjoy it. I usually try to walk away when I get this kind of anger flowing.

Burning hot rage anger: Happened once or twice in my life, when cold anger has been set off. Verbal evisceration happened, and I had to tell the persons to walk away, or else I would be doing them some serious physical harm. One person was stupid enough to believe that a girl wouldn't do that. He was wrong.

(I was in my 20's, this big guy had been sexually harassing a friend of mine all night, and as the bar was closing, he was trying to pull her to his car, and she was all crying and saying "Leave me alone, etc." I ended up kicking him in the nuts, and when he went down, kicking him in the kidneys. Thisclose to kicking him the head, but I walked my sobbing, hysterical friend away instead.)

So yeah; I try not to get REALLY angry much. I'll rail and get pissy at minor things, but it usually last a few minutes and I can laugh it off or just use my Don't Fuck with Me voice to TCB.


shrift - Sep 18, 2014 10:03:55 am PDT #6449 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I misspoke! Tiny regional airport has WiFi! Four for you, Glen Coco.


Steph L. - Sep 18, 2014 10:04:55 am PDT #6450 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Four for you, Glen Coco.

It makes me sad when people don't get "You go, Glen Coco!"


Burrell - Sep 18, 2014 10:05:49 am PDT #6451 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Job~ma to Theo and Calli!

Safe travels, shrift!

I had a bad morning, including a not-so-helpful meeting with Franny's teacher, getting pulled over for my car registration, and subsequently being late for my first student conference. I am trying to find my way to the day getting better, but ugh!


Burrell - Sep 18, 2014 10:06:42 am PDT #6452 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Oh Steph, saw something relevant to your interests: TJs has gluten-free pumpkin pancake mix right now.