Buffy: A Guide, but no water or food. So it leads me to the sacred place and then a week later it leads you to my bleached bones? Giles: Buffy, really. It takes more than a week to bleach bones.

'Dirty Girls'


Natter 73: Chuck Norris only wishes he could Natter  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Kat - Mar 04, 2015 11:23:45 am PST #21261 of 30000
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

I have a Hulk outfit that's a kelly green shirt and purple corduroys. When I first started doing it, I felt conspicuous. Now I give no fucks.

I want a Hulk outfit! I already wore my Wonder Woman outfit this week.

Plei, I hope your house selling hits a smoother patch ASAP.


shrift - Mar 04, 2015 11:41:38 am PST #21262 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Avengers theme outfits are good to have. I wear the Hulk outfit on days when I have meetings that probably are going to make me angry. I go Captain America colors when I need encouragement to be a better person and not set everything on fire. Hawkeye purple when it's failboat time. Black Widow when it's murder time. Iron Man days are just straight-up Iron Man T-shirt days.

It just occurred to me that I don't have a Thor. I need a Thor!

In other news, I'm at Union Station waiting to get on a train to Michigan.


P.M. Marc - Mar 04, 2015 11:51:53 am PST #21263 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I tend to layer Cap under my Black Widow jacket.

I wear the Dzing! circus-smell perfume when I need to be all Oh coffee, no. about things.


Connie Neil - Mar 04, 2015 12:55:17 pm PST #21264 of 30000
brillig

High of 38 yesterday. It will be in the 60s on Saturday. The new winter standard.


SuziQ - Mar 04, 2015 1:13:48 pm PST #21265 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I want to be shrift and Plei when I grow up.

I need a reality check. I spoke with the mortgage gal at my credit union on Monday morning. She said she needed to do some research on the co-signer aspect as that is a new thing they are offering. She said she would get back to me later that day. I called yesterday afternoon after not hearing from her. I got her voice mail and left a message. I still haven't heard from her, so I sent her an e-mail a couple of hours ago.

I wanted to stick with my credit union because I would rather support them than some mega bank. But I'd like to get the process moving so I can officially start house hunting. Or, if I can't get qualified, then apartment hunting.

Am I being unreasonable in my expectation of response time?


Zenkitty - Mar 04, 2015 1:19:43 pm PST #21266 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I don't think that's unreasonable. She may have had some kind of emergency that took her away from the office, but I'd still expect some communication within a day or two.


Maria - Mar 04, 2015 1:44:29 pm PST #21267 of 30000
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

I'm with Zen. Communication is key.

One thing is bothering me though. Co-signing on loans, including mortgages, is not a new thing. What do they do about married folks?

Not all mortgage brokers work with large banks, and there's a good chance that your mortgage would be sold before your first payment is due, even with a credit union. Your servicing company could also change. Your realtor may have suggestions for you. Mine gave me a list of people to contact, and all of them were local lenders. I never once dealt with the Wells Fargo, Bank of America, or PNC monstrosities when I bought the house in PA.


Una - Mar 04, 2015 1:48:11 pm PST #21268 of 30000
when i die, please bake my ashes into a brick and use me to hit fascists.

I actually chose my mortgage credit union by which, of the CUs and banks I initially contacted, had the most responsive representative. Seriously, she answered my voice mail after 6pm on a weekday.


Juliebird - Mar 04, 2015 1:49:19 pm PST #21269 of 30000
I am the fly who dreams of the spider

I was offered the opportunity to attend the philly flower show, but I'd have to pay for the ticket. What's the point of being a staff member on a staff-led trip if I don't get it for free? I'm paid peanuts, please don't recruit me to make your departments budget, jerkwad.


SuziQ - Mar 04, 2015 1:59:08 pm PST #21270 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Maria - I think it is the co-signing, but not residing that is the issue. But really - seems odd for that to be new. I'm mainly using my dad for his good credit. I have the income to cover the payments.