I certainly understand how thinking about the future can be terrifying.
For me, it's the first time thinking about doing it on my own. And if that's something I actually might want. Terrifying is an understatement.
We can be terrified together?
Don't let the space bugs bite!
Kaylee ,'Objects In Space'
Natter 73: Chuck Norris only wishes he could Natter
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Amy - Jan 21, 2015 7:30:56 am PST #16407 of 30000
Because books.
Steph L. - Jan 21, 2015 7:36:39 am PST #16408 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Amy, forgive me for asking, but -- are things not good with Stephen?
t edit I'm sorry to be intrusive. I wasn't asking out of bystander curiosity, but because I care about you and want to support you the best way possible.
-t - Jan 21, 2015 7:37:18 am PST #16409 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
I hope you can figure something out, Amy. The future is always unknown and scary, but sometimes it is even moreso. I'm glad you have a good place to be for now.
Sean K - Jan 21, 2015 7:38:09 am PST #16410 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
I always think of it as "A sky"
This is how I think of it.
P.M. Marc - Jan 21, 2015 7:38:28 am PST #16411 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Ha ha, yeah. Even Dana calls me shrift. (If anyone can't make the connection, the most recent picture I posted was of beer.) I answer to both, although when I'm with fannish people, I answer more readily to shrift.
I will always remember your legal name, because it weirds me out. It sounds like a character name.
msbelle - Jan 21, 2015 7:39:36 am PST #16412 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
Off topic. I am trying to decide whether to keep doing karate.
Pros: exercise, scheduled, like the teacher, self defense
Cons: kinda far away, no class for beginners, money.
I have already decide the budget needs a once over, so I am going through it. Already cancelled on thing which was a monthly charge. The dunkin budget is what I must cut next. Must start back with coffee at work. That will no joke cover the cost of karate.
Amy - Jan 21, 2015 7:40:45 am PST #16413 of 30000
Because books.
Steph, things are ... the same. Which I'm beginning to wonder about. I don't know. My head is not a pretty place right now. I love him, but I guess I'm not sure if he's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. Which, after 26 years of marriage, seems both ridiculous and scary. It's complicated.
I'm not angry at him, but I am feeling like this is a chance to break out of some old, bad habits, I guess.
meara - Jan 21, 2015 7:43:15 am PST #16414 of 30000
Best of luck, Amy. Sounds like a hard situation all around.
msbelle, are there other closer classes you could take?
Steph L. - Jan 21, 2015 7:43:20 am PST #16415 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Steph, things are ... the same. Which I'm beginning to wonder about.
That is big and complicated and scary. It does sound like this change may give you some perspective to consider everything.
Dana - Jan 21, 2015 7:44:07 am PST #16416 of 30000
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."
Yeah, Amy, I don't want your problems and any support you might need to get lost in...the other stuff that's going on.