My husband discovered that alcohol was his major migraine trigger, and that if he cut out alcohol entirely, he stopped having migraines.
And my son, as we all hoped beyond hoping for, did what some male adolescents do and mostly outgrew his migraines. He's just turned 21, and got an A in his first community college class after missing all of high school.
That's great Betsy. I have a friend who can't consume anything aged or fermented.
Pain management is ridiculous. My dad was in a lot of pain around his hip replacement and we had to fight with his doctor for adequate pain management. And that would have been more difficult if I didn't have Anita giving me correct information on drugs and their side effects, since my dad's doctor was scare mongering about opiates and their side effects.
Betsy, that is great to hear. Wonderful news.
I'm so happy for your husband and for Will, Betsy.
Betsy, I've just threadsucked straight to your post, and was so pleased to read your news regarding your husband and your son (though it's of course impossible that he's 21. He can't possibly be that age, that must have been some typo). You're daily in my prayers, so the problem was definitely on my mind frequently, and it's such a relief to read that there are steps taken in the right direction. Hopefully soon for you, personally, as well.
ita did, ironically, make that dickhead's job easier.
Sometimes I still have to remind myself there was no Seamus for ita to meet, isn't that stupid?
Good God, some of Hubby's infusions were charged at $50,000 a shot or more!
The law covers the charge to the patient, not the insurance company.
Someone comes to you for pain meds. You treat them for pain or you treat them for addiction. Possibly, you treat them for both. But you effing treat them.
In a nutshell.
When I'm less angry - I'll never be less angry - when I'm able to modulate my emotions better, I might try to draft a version of ita's Law into a petition for Change.org. Or even one to put on the whitehouse.gov site, about changing the way pain medication management is handled. It probably won't do much, but if it gets enough signatures, they have to respond to it, which means they have to read it. There are so freaking many people on migraine and cancer support sites who are surely wrestling with this very same problem, I bet it could get enough signatures in a week.
Betsy, that's such great news, especially about your son.
I was so, so sad and stunned to get this news last night from javachik. (And I'm sorry to have worried her so. I guess it was not the day to take a media break).
It looks like I've unintentionally been on a media break from the board for some time since I had to drag out my old laptop to be able to log in. I need to remedy that. I miss you guys, and I will really miss ita.
Thanks and love to Allyson, Polgara, Kristen, and Burrell for being there for her. It is so very much appreciated.
