Nilly, you're doing it. By grieving and talking and offering help. But I get it, the grief, the anger, the tears, the helpless feeling.
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deb, do you have an e-mail address for Betsy? She was the first person on my list of people I'm tryin g to track down.
I'm trying to track down old e-mail addresses of Buffistas who don't - or only rarely - post here anymore. I'm sure they'd want to know, right?
I have uh...not "reached out" but emailed and messaged some people: Rebecca Lizard, (asked her to tell John H.), Angus, Cindy, Rio. Sent a message to Analee at I09, but if other people have a more direct line should let her know.
Is there somebody who has contact with her Krav people?
Weirdly I thought, "Who's going to tell Jeff Mejia?" And I realized I was sad for us in the aggregate. For our community.
Betsy's on Dreamwidth, if nothing else.
Oh, no.
I can't think of anything to say that hasn't already been said by others and better. She will be sorely missed. My thoughts go out to her friends and family.
I'm trying my best not to cry at work. I'm thankful for having gotten to know her over the years through this board if never in person and trying to take comfort in that she is now free of the pain that plagued her for so long.
I emailed Betsy just now.
Most of you have never met me, and I mostly interact with Buffistas on fb, but ita and the board have been entwined in my brain and I am shocked by this news. My sympathies to those who met her, knew her, loved her, and my sympathies for the world in losing her.
JZ has Betsy's email and was going to contact her.
I have Betsy'e email address, I think. Nilly, I will send it to your profile addy.
Oh my God. No. I. What. This can't be. I never even met her. No. Just no.