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Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Tom Scola - Aug 01, 2013 5:46:25 am PDT #960 of 30000
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

My kidney stone hovered around 7 or 8, and sometimes approached 9.

I took off from work.


Strix - Aug 01, 2013 5:51:35 am PDT #961 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Yes, I imagine you did!

My first gall bladder attack, I had NO idea what it was and it was awful. But my husband was asleep, and my stepson was asleep, and I didn't want to scare them, so I lay there in agony for 5 hours.

I thought maybe I had appendicitis, but that part of my body wasn't tender to the touch, so I just sucked it up.


Amy - Aug 01, 2013 6:29:43 am PDT #962 of 30000
Because books.

It's raining like the apocalypse here. Very impressive thunder and lightning. This means I can stay in bed all day, right?


Pix - Aug 01, 2013 6:39:20 am PDT #963 of 30000
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

When ND was at the height of the acute necrotizing pancreatitis, he was screaming and had sweat through all of his clothes. Screaming. From a man who never even admits he's in pain. It was the most hideous thing I've been through as a partner--seeing someone I love so much in so much pain and being so completely helpless.

I'm so sorry that that type of pain is something you go through on a regular basis, ita. My heart hurts for you. I just want to find a magic cure so you never have to feel that kind of pain again.


Strix - Aug 01, 2013 6:57:22 am PDT #964 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

What Pix said.


§ ita § - Aug 01, 2013 7:01:18 am PDT #965 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

One of the stupid parts of migraine pain (or that being over the horizon) is that screaming is a feedback loop. It's very tempting and also repulsive. Quiet sobbing, punching the wall, breaking things, holding sharp things tightly--those are the only remediation options I currently have.

What I hate hate hate is not being able to talk without crying. Like, I can hold it together if I sit and stare, and then a person says anything and my throat closes and I sob and can't speak and feel like a moron even though it's an ER and collapsing people is what they do, and I have never screamed or flinched from anything other than touching my face, head, or shoulder. Stab me again with your needles medical people!

I am upset that any of us have any calibration. I am also upset that I'm supposed to have muscle relaxants around here and have no idea where...

Man, my boss said "Hey, can you print out PDFs of these and send them out for the meeting in 15 minutes and also work out how to record the audio of the meeting too?" Uh, no? I can do one or the other, maybe, if you hang up right now. But if you keep talking, I can do maybe one (and given that we use PDF Creator which has *never* not thrown an error (just usually also throws a PDF, BUT NOT TODAY) maybe not even one).

We started the meeting in front of the executives looking so disorganised, and ack.


shrift - Aug 01, 2013 7:08:11 am PDT #966 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

First day on new role and I'm already planning trips to New York, San Francisco/Mountain View, and Toronto.


bon bon - Aug 01, 2013 7:14:55 am PDT #967 of 30000
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

Breaking my arm a little over a year ago-- that took Percocet to take down but even when I had to manipulate it for x-rays it was never worse than a 7. Something about headaches have a worse character than any internal injury, IMO.


Dana - Aug 01, 2013 7:26:29 am PDT #968 of 30000
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

My worst pain was probably when I had my cast off after ankle surgery, and they had to bend the ankle for the first time to start to restore mobility.

Or dry socket from wisdom tooth removal.


Laura - Aug 01, 2013 7:29:25 am PDT #969 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I am a big ole baby and have zip for pain tolerance. The pain after foot surgery was bad, but not like labor. The only reason I did childbirth natural a couple times is that I am more afraid of needles than pain. With zero pain tolerance.

I am extraordinarily grateful that I have no chronic pain at all and rarely have any kind of pain other than stubbing a toe. The distribution of pain among the humans clearly isn't even at all.

Watching loved ones in pain and the helplessness associated is horrible.

ita !, may there be real and effective remediation options soon. Permanent options would be the best.