Surgery~ma to Grace, coping~ma to Kat. I was at the hospital, or rather at the medical center, today too taking my sister to a doctor's appointment.

I don't get why someone would challenge the claim that sibling incest exists. Maybe they misunderstood? I notice many people mistake acknowledgement for approval.

I don't get why someone would challenge the claim that sibling incest exists.

Because they can't handle the idea, therefore something so disturbing simply cannot be true? People do that all the time.

I'm pretty sure sibling incest is just as prevalent as parent/child. At least in the case of the (fictional, I know) Winchesters, nobody's having babies.

How do you tell a new friend that you don't like a single one of these songs that they seem so invested in?

If she asks, tell her it's not your thing. If she doesn't ask, don't tell her anything. I've never been hurt by someone not sharing musical taste (dismayed, condescending, disappointed, derisive, yes. But not hurt).

therefore something so disturbing simply cannot be true? People do that all the time.

I don't get that either. His response to me was "your examples were mostly twins, so they don't count." Not only were they not mostly twins (I pulled the first five age differences for him--from 13 months to 14 years), how does twin brothers having sex not count as brothers having sex? AND HOW CAN HE STILL THINK IT DOESN'T HAPPEN???

Why on earth wouldn't twins count? That's just dumb.

Can you disengage ita? I don't think he's worth the bother.

Twins is basically the same as masturbating, that's why.

....Right?

Maybe because twins is a particular fantasy for some? But really, there's no working with that kind of loosey-goosey logic.

I keep meaning to post about something else but keep returning to the incest. Yesterday Franny came home wanting to adopt a chinchilla for a pet. Oy! That's not an easy pet to keep right? le sigh.

Jesse WINS.