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Natter 72: We Were Unprepared for This  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


shrift - Sep 26, 2013 9:53:47 am PDT #6729 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

What's involved in "overservicing"?

In this context I'd guess unnecessary tests and/or medications.


Jesse - Sep 26, 2013 9:55:50 am PDT #6730 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

We debate email v. handwritten here every time we hire someone. But our jobs are a little more formal than most, I think, and more paper-oriented, for sure.


Amy - Sep 26, 2013 9:58:44 am PDT #6731 of 30000
Because books.

I think a hand-written note might be nice for a high level job, and one of those interviews where you're there all day and have lunch and blah blah, but for anything else I think email would be okay. I'm amazed I remembered to do it.


brenda m - Sep 26, 2013 9:59:42 am PDT #6732 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I have a colleague - not an applicant! - who is in the habit of handwritten thank you notes. Like, I mentioned to her that we were having a potluck in our group (which she had been hoping to join) and that she should stop by if she was around. She didn't make the potluck but I got a fancy engraved cardstock thank you via interoffice mail the next day.


Steph L. - Sep 26, 2013 10:04:16 am PDT #6733 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Don't even TALK about handwritten thank-yous. I have a pile just staring at me, for the wedding. And since I'm still technically unemployed (the AMA job doesn't start until mid-October), I have no problem writing them all, since Tim is working.

It's just a daunting pile. But I'd like to get them done before we leave for the honeymoon.


Jesse - Sep 26, 2013 10:06:20 am PDT #6734 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Just do it! They don't have to be well-written.


Amy - Sep 26, 2013 10:08:47 am PDT #6735 of 30000
Because books.

Steph, the only way to get them done (for me anyway) is do five at a time. Five today, five tomorrow, five the next day, etc. Or three! Just pick a number.


Steph L. - Sep 26, 2013 10:11:36 am PDT #6736 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Just do it! They don't have to be well-written.

"Dear Wedding Guest,
"You rock. We appreciate it."


Jesse - Sep 26, 2013 10:15:58 am PDT #6737 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Seriously, just say "We appreciate the XX" for non-cash gifts, and you're done.


Amy - Sep 26, 2013 10:18:42 am PDT #6738 of 30000
Because books.

In other news, whoever decided to have me work on a spreadsheet today needs to take a long, hard look at their choices. There's a reason I wanted to make up shit for a living.